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Eko

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12. Its always a good idea to stop for a moment and think about your feelings and thoughts
Tue Jun 14, 2022, 08:46 PM
Jun 2022

before you come to a decision. I don't like calling them the enemy at all. It changes the way you think about them. They become an undefined "them", you start to treat them like you wouldn't treat people normally. You degrade them in your mind and thoughts and actions that would have once been unseemly or unimaginable on your part become the norm. This is a dangerous path and one that republicans and conservatives have fallen into deeply. I see it here though some. No where as much, but more than I would like. I hate to say it but it happens, its part of human nature for people not used to fighting. There are two types of way to fight, with emotion or with logic. When you let emotion control you to fight and this is not just physical fighting but is true in any confrontation you have lost control of yourself. You are no longer acting as a rational being. Your actions are not ones that you would normally do or choose to do. You have lost control. Calling someone the enemy or treating them as such reinforces your using emotion when you do a confrontation. They are the enemy, they must be destroyed. Your actions upon confronting them are emotional because you have used emotion to classify them. Pyryck, I hope you have read this far because it about to change. You are using emotion in confronting them, not logic. They are not your enemy, but they are without a doubt against what I presume you stand for and what you think this country should be and they are working hard, even using violence to erase what those ideals are. You are using emotion thinking you and us can reach out with love and compassion to fix this while they are planning and executing the end of the ideals we all believe in. Many of them want you and us just straight out dead and if it was legal to do it they would be doing it. If there was some kind of crazy civil war that broke out I have no doubt whatsoever that my whole family would be on the other side of me. Would I fight against my brothers? Yes. Not because they are my enemy but because they are wrong. They are just plain ol wrong. At a certain point you just have to realize that you cant fix their wrong and when they decide to impose it upon us we get to do what we need to do to protect ourselves and our country. My enemy? Evil? Nope, but wrong nonetheless and sitting back thinking we can change them with our kindness is pretty much just spitting in the wind.

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Best I can manage is "Bless your heart!" I have scars on all four of my cheeks because I turned Atticus Jun 2022 #1
Bless our hearts! luvallpeeps Jun 2022 #2
How we gonna do that? impossible to reason with a cult. Nice sentiment - but..no thanks. NewHendoLib Jun 2022 #3
When they stop trying to kill my kids, I might consider caring. I am sorry, but no. onecaliberal Jun 2022 #4
No. Not turning the other cheek. I understand abuse. Turn the other cheek Scrivener7 Jun 2022 #5
hahaha demtenjeep Jun 2022 #6
Sorry, no. dixiechiken1 Jun 2022 #7
+1 n/t area51 Jun 2022 #24
What makes you think MuseRider Jun 2022 #8
I disagree, but your post is very well written. LuckyCharms Jun 2022 #9
Agree with sentiment, but cachukis Jun 2022 #10
Nope, ain't gonna happen from me. llmart Jun 2022 #11
Its always a good idea to stop for a moment and think about your feelings and thoughts Eko Jun 2022 #12
They have made themselves enemies IngridsLittleAngel Jun 2022 #13
I generally agree. (and don't wait for the BUT) usonian Jun 2022 #14
"Pro-Trump Candidate Calls for Executing Parents of LGBTQ+ Kids." shrike3 Jun 2022 #15
This is why we lose a lot of elections. Unintentionally MerryBlooms Jun 2022 #16
Tell it to the other side. SammyWinstonJack Jun 2022 #17
Sorry, I have to respond. qwlauren35 Jun 2022 #18
The people you're referring to, the lost souls who have hopelessly ingested propaganda JonAndKatePlusABird Jun 2022 #19
I Can't Really Add Much... DET Jun 2022 #20
I'm not a Christian scipan Jun 2022 #21
No accommodation kairos12 Jun 2022 #22
No. EndlessWire Jun 2022 #23
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