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highplainsdem

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15. I have a MAGA relative in another state who often tries to lecture me on
Fri Jun 17, 2022, 12:15 PM
Jun 2022

politics (even though I majored in politics and got much better grades, too). But he can't handle it if I respond to anything he says. First he'll start screaming, and then he'll hang up. I've told him lots of times in the past that I don't want to discuss politics with him since he can't discuss that subject at all rationally. He keeps bringing it up anyway, no matter what we were discussing earlier. He seems to think he's "enlightening" me. Idiot.

I was going to say that he can discuss most subjects fairly rationally. Well, family stuff, anyway, which is what I try to keep the conversation on.

But now that I think about it, he usually isn't happy if it turns out any advice I've given him is right, that he'd been doing something wrong -- even if he (or his pets) had benefited from the advice. Often it's health advice, which is another subject I know more about than he does. He doesn't get quite as upset as he does discussing politics. But he's apparently incapable of thanking anyone for giving him facts he needed. Even if he'd have saved a lot of money on health care costs (for himself and his pets) if he'd bothered to get the facts earlier.

Authoritarian mindset. Not willing to learn since it means admitting having been wrong earlier.

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Well and this was precisely borne out in yesterday's hearing, Saoirse9! cilla4progress Jun 2022 #1
The author is right Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #3
Exactly, conservatism is the ideology of maintaining individual power. Preferrably for lots of money Thomas Hurt Jun 2022 #2
Or the old "keep the sides divided" routine. overleft Jun 2022 #4
I saw this piece the other day and lost it. Bookmarked now, lol! Thanks. K&R n/t ms liberty Jun 2022 #5
Yes!!!! I lost it too Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #9
Recommended. H2O Man Jun 2022 #6
Definitely. Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #8
They are paranoid. H2O Man Jun 2022 #11
Republicans tend to be self-interested, selfish, and want to lead, not follow andym Jun 2022 #7
You may have come to the root cause of their love of TFG Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #10
Despised Trump-- good for you. Many folks in NY thought Trump a fool for years andym Jun 2022 #12
He was always delusional Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #20
"It's the patriarchy..." cilla4progress Jun 2022 #13
I love this Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #16
Exactly! cilla4progress Jun 2022 #24
Yes if women ran the world it would be peaceful Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #25
And, to me, cilla4progress Jun 2022 #26
You're right Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #27
Spot on. Midnight Writer Jun 2022 #14
I have a MAGA relative in another state who often tries to lecture me on highplainsdem Jun 2022 #15
Yes I have MAGA relatives who are exactly the same Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #17
I've been thinking about this since I 1st saw it. maxsolomon Jun 2022 #18
Exactly Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #21
It is all about the "natural order" Caliman73 Jun 2022 #19
Yes Calimary this is a very good explanation! Saoirse9 Jun 2022 #23
exactly! demigoddess Jun 2022 #22
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