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ItsjustMe

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Wed Jun 29, 2022, 10:33 AM Jun 2022

Father kills himself after finding 18-month-old son dead in hot car [View all]



https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/father-kills-himself-18-month-042822446.html

A man in Virginia died by suicide after he found his infant child dead in an overheated car. He had left the child unattented for three hours on Tuesday while he was at work, police officials said.

Officials said the man died of a self-inflicted gunshot injury shortly after finding his 18-month-old child motionless inside the car.

He was found in the woods behind his house.

Authorities were alerted on Tuesday to reach the family’s house. “Upon their arrival, they located the people in the driveway with an open door with an empty child seat in the vehicle. As they made entry into the residence, they found a deceased 18-month-old inside,” said Chesterfield Police Lt Col Christopher Hensley.

When police continued to check the perimeter of the residence, “they found an adult male in the wooded area behind the house [with] an apparent gunshot wound”.
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Horrible tragedy. 50 Shades Of Blue Jun 2022 #1
From the article...so much grief for the childs mother and family. 🕯️ irisblue Jun 2022 #2
Probably forgot the child was in the car wryter2000 Jun 2022 #8
How the inthewind21 Jun 2022 #15
Sadly, it tends to happen with a change in routine Roxi Jun 2022 #25
Some people put their shoes in the back too... JHB Jun 2022 #38
That's great wryter2000 Jun 2022 #64
You're missing the point. The shoe thing is just one possibility. JHB Jun 2022 #76
Sadly agree JanLip Jun 2022 #33
Really? USALiberal Jun 2022 #34
Yes really ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #53
Nice try USALiberal Jun 2022 #56
You really want to start an argument over this let it go ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #58
Read this Pulitzer Prize winning article about it Sympthsical Jun 2022 #35
Thanks for the tip about the paywall. And for posting this link. LAS14 Jun 2022 #82
I retired 3 years ago and if I get in the car early in the morning to go Captain Zero Jun 2022 #104
I never had children wryter2000 Jun 2022 #62
Totally understandable Goodheart Jun 2022 #94
Jeezus... Goodheart Jun 2022 #95
There was a case here in Colorado a number of years ago. Sitter did not show up, niyad Jun 2022 #101
This message was self-deleted by its author RANDYWILDMAN Jun 2022 #65
YES THEY DO wryter2000 Jun 2022 #69
This message was self-deleted by its author RANDYWILDMAN Jun 2022 #71
I never had children wryter2000 Jun 2022 #72
Have you bothered to read the article posted several places in this thread? Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #78
Thanks! I totally agree with you and told the person you were responding to. nt LAS14 Jun 2022 #85
I agree with Mrs Toad nt LAS14 Jun 2022 #83
I have read the article and politely disagree with y'all... RANDYWILDMAN Jun 2022 #92
Yes, we are in disagreement on this. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #100
You are calling me out, not sure why RANDYWILDMAN Jun 2022 #103
Calling it a lapse in judgment indicates you fundamentally fail to understand the issue. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #108
YOU DON'T KNOW WTF YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT Goodheart Jun 2022 #96
It can happen, brother. SYFROYH Jun 2022 #97
Sad, just incredibly sad bucolic_frolic Jun 2022 #3
Tragic. cilla4progress Jun 2022 #4
Total Carelesness + A Gun Equals 2 Dead SoCalDavidS Jun 2022 #5
A distracted brain, and a change in routine, and a quiet baby. Wingus Dingus Jun 2022 #9
No excuse inthewind21 Jun 2022 #16
Everyone's brains can glitch. Everyone can be distracted, including loving parents. Wingus Dingus Jun 2022 #18
I agree completely dwayneb Jun 2022 #20
Yes, he must have been absolutely distraught--his poor family, losing Wingus Dingus Jun 2022 #24
Yep we had a close call once dwayneb Jun 2022 #37
A non-tragic example wryter2000 Jun 2022 #68
that is the springboard / premise for the movie home alone orleans Jun 2022 #74
It happened in real life (not as dramatically) to my BIL. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #79
if the writer didn't experience it personally perhaps they heard a similar story orleans Jun 2022 #93
Yes, there is no good reason why they can't come up with, or apply, Wingus Dingus Jun 2022 #86
This above exactly ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #57
Hasn't everyone walked into a room and forgot why they went there? Or Captain Zero Jun 2022 #105
Same for a car wreck, never drive again? Nt USALiberal Jun 2022 #46
The day didn't have to be hot wryter2000 Jun 2022 #10
"How can someone forget that their child is in the car with them?" Very easily. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #12
I immediately thought of that feature piece, as well. GopherGal Jun 2022 #49
It changed my thinking about the whole issue, instantly. I used to be someone who would say "no one WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #50
Me too The Revolution Jun 2022 #102
Thanks for posting Sympthsical Jun 2022 #52
It's really very sad wryter2000 Jun 2022 #67
FFS, people make mistakes! So kind of you! Nt USALiberal Jun 2022 #26
Don't worry. He won't be troubling you anymore. BannonsLiver Jun 2022 #89
I saw a lady on tv blueknight73 Jun 2022 #6
I think it is strange that people have to put something important in the backseat with their kids ripcord Jun 2022 #7
It doesn't have anything to do with importance. As experts say, if you can forget your cell phone, WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #13
There's a very good article out there... Mellomugwump Jun 2022 #14
It can happen to anyone dwayneb Jun 2022 #27
Is it this one? It's what changed my thinking on it, years ago. WhiskeyGrinder Jun 2022 #31
Yes, that was it! Mellomugwump Jun 2022 #41
Really????? USALiberal Jun 2022 #28
It is precisely because a child is most important, Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #30
And you're going to immediately notice the lack of a shoe! Mellomugwump Jun 2022 #43
That is what I was referring to when i said physical reminder. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #45
I was basically agreeing with what you said! Mellomugwump Jun 2022 #73
Of course you would put it in backseat by the baby ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #51
It actually wouldn't matter where it was, as long as it wasn't on your foot. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #80
This has has been explained over and over. yardwork Jun 2022 #42
+1000 USALiberal Jun 2022 #84
Because my shoe is so much more important than my child. alphafemale Jun 2022 #11
No matter inthewind21 Jun 2022 #17
Seriously? Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #66
Jesus wept. yardwork Jun 2022 #87
Isn't that you would immediately notice a missing shoe when you stepped out of the car? (nt) petronius Jun 2022 #29
Precisely. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #36
Do You Truly RobinA Jun 2022 #32
Lol, you really don't get it! USALiberal Jun 2022 #39
No, it's not. But you will notice right away when you get out of the car. JHB Jun 2022 #60
No , It's just that you easily remember if you don't have the shoe. Even compared to your wallet and JI7 Jun 2022 #110
Good idea. jeffreyi Jun 2022 #23
A car can be a solar oven on a sunny day Kaleva Jun 2022 #19
That is really sad. Life can be so tragic. fightforfreedom Jun 2022 #21
There is a simple technological solution - but auto manufacturers and regulators don't seem to care dwayneb Jun 2022 #22
Numerous auto mfgrs have already implemented infant safety systems. Totally Tunsie Jun 2022 #90
How about having all new cars have a warning alarm if you shut off the car and leave the vehicle Dysfunctional Jun 2022 #40
Excellent idea!! Duppers Jun 2022 #48
apparently such a thing has been patented... GopherGal Jun 2022 #54
I wonder wryter2000 Jun 2022 #75
The technology is already here. Totally Tunsie Jun 2022 #91
Right for seatbelt purposes my car detects people in front passenger seat. Captain Zero Jun 2022 #107
Wow oh my god. So sad! Emile Jun 2022 #44
What a tragedy I have a 6 year old Son my only child. ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #47
I can't imagine leaving my kid in the car Bettie Jun 2022 #55
Glad he had a gun handy 867-5309. Jun 2022 #59
Even your Sarcasm gif doesn't make it better. I can't ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #61
I hope it doesn't happen more now since so many people have brain fog from getting infected w/ Covid liberal_mama Jun 2022 #63
Exactly that's what I thought and posted the something ArnoldLayne Jun 2022 #70
It could go either way. Ms. Toad Jun 2022 #81
Yes I think of him coming home to tell his wife Tree Lady Jun 2022 #88
I've had two friends who forgot to pick up their toddlers at daycare PlanetBev Jun 2022 #77
Maybe Daycare should text parents if child is not dropped off JI7 Jun 2022 #98
I think the mother was contacted later in the morning. Captain Zero Jun 2022 #106
How much later ? I think it needs to be a process JI7 Jun 2022 #109
What a fucking horrible story. RIP! beaglelover Jun 2022 #99
I can't help but feel sorry for him ( I'm more sorry for the little boy) but Raine Jun 2022 #111
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