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In reply to the discussion: Father kills himself after finding 18-month-old son dead in hot car [View all]GopherGal
(2,951 posts)49. I immediately thought of that feature piece, as well.
It won the 2010 Pulitzer in Feature Writing.
One excerpt I remember brings back the "unintended consequences" thing:
Two decades ago, this was relatively rare. But in the early 1990s, car-safety experts declared that passenger-side front airbags could kill children, and they recommended that child seats be moved to the back of the car; then, for even more safety for the very young, that the baby seats be pivoted to face the rear. If few foresaw the tragic consequence of the lessened visibility of the child . . . well, who can blame them? What kind of person forgets a baby?
The wealthy do, it turns out. And the poor, and the middle class. Parents of all ages and ethnicities do it. Mothers are just as likely to do it as fathers. It happens to the chronically absent-minded and to the fanatically organized, to the college-educated and to the marginally literate. In the last 10 years, it has happened to a dentist. A postal clerk. A social worker. A police officer. An accountant. A soldier. A paralegal. An electrician. A Protestant clergyman. A rabbinical student. A nurse. A construction worker. An assistant principal. It happened to a mental health counselor, a college professor and a pizza chef. It happened to a pediatrician. It happened to a rocket scientist.
The wealthy do, it turns out. And the poor, and the middle class. Parents of all ages and ethnicities do it. Mothers are just as likely to do it as fathers. It happens to the chronically absent-minded and to the fanatically organized, to the college-educated and to the marginally literate. In the last 10 years, it has happened to a dentist. A postal clerk. A social worker. A police officer. An accountant. A soldier. A paralegal. An electrician. A Protestant clergyman. A rabbinical student. A nurse. A construction worker. An assistant principal. It happened to a mental health counselor, a college professor and a pizza chef. It happened to a pediatrician. It happened to a rocket scientist.
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Father kills himself after finding 18-month-old son dead in hot car [View all]
ItsjustMe
Jun 2022
OP
There was a case here in Colorado a number of years ago. Sitter did not show up,
niyad
Jun 2022
#101
Calling it a lapse in judgment indicates you fundamentally fail to understand the issue.
Ms. Toad
Jun 2022
#108
Everyone's brains can glitch. Everyone can be distracted, including loving parents.
Wingus Dingus
Jun 2022
#18
if the writer didn't experience it personally perhaps they heard a similar story
orleans
Jun 2022
#93
"How can someone forget that their child is in the car with them?" Very easily.
WhiskeyGrinder
Jun 2022
#12
It changed my thinking about the whole issue, instantly. I used to be someone who would say "no one
WhiskeyGrinder
Jun 2022
#50
I think it is strange that people have to put something important in the backseat with their kids
ripcord
Jun 2022
#7
It doesn't have anything to do with importance. As experts say, if you can forget your cell phone,
WhiskeyGrinder
Jun 2022
#13
Isn't that you would immediately notice a missing shoe when you stepped out of the car? (nt)
petronius
Jun 2022
#29
No , It's just that you easily remember if you don't have the shoe. Even compared to your wallet and
JI7
Jun 2022
#110
There is a simple technological solution - but auto manufacturers and regulators don't seem to care
dwayneb
Jun 2022
#22
How about having all new cars have a warning alarm if you shut off the car and leave the vehicle
Dysfunctional
Jun 2022
#40
Right for seatbelt purposes my car detects people in front passenger seat.
Captain Zero
Jun 2022
#107
I hope it doesn't happen more now since so many people have brain fog from getting infected w/ Covid
liberal_mama
Jun 2022
#63