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Hortensis

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20. He's going to his grandmother and his brother and other family.
Sun Oct 23, 2022, 07:38 PM
Oct 2022

This is a very common situation, including the outrage of Americans that we would allow a child to be sent to family in an underdeveloped nation and denied all our advantages.

It might help those who are bothered to remember that people in other nations, including ones with much lower standards of living, often strongly disapprove of various elements of our culture and the way we raise our children here and feel their ways are much better. Many who come here to work leave their children with relatives so they will be raised in their own culture. Over the years, I’ve met many who felt that way.

Note that this baby’s grandmother did not say oh thank goodness on learning than a loving American couple wanted to keep her grandson, so presumably she doesn’t believe her circumstances are as dire as some might imagine.

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I'll take melanin for 1,000 Alex. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #1
+1 2naSalit Oct 2022 #2
+1 uponit7771 Oct 2022 #12
This message was self-deleted by its author JI7 Oct 2022 #21
Maybe if Ector changed his name to Elian Gonzalez? sop Oct 2022 #3
Uhm, Elian was sent back even tho under US policies he had the right to stay Arazi Oct 2022 #5
IIRC, Elian's father wanted him back Retrograde Oct 2022 #8
All true Arazi Oct 2022 #13
Elian was not a US citizen, and his father actually wanted him back. LisaL Oct 2022 #14
Absolutely true. I made exactly that point in post #5 Arazi Oct 2022 #16
If the 9-month-old child were Cuban, he'd have the entire Miami Cuban-American community on sop Oct 2022 #11
I dunno, Elian was used as a political prop for the Castros too Arazi Oct 2022 #17
The father was already involved in politics which also meant he JI7 Oct 2022 #19
For a bunch of guys who claim to have the BDE... Cracklin Charlie Oct 2022 #4
No opinion on this decision, Hortensis Oct 2022 #6
They aren't returning this child to his parents. LisaL Oct 2022 #9
He's going to his grandmother and his brother and other family. Hortensis Oct 2022 #20
I don't know what she believes, but if US is telling US citizens to leave Haiti, LisaL Oct 2022 #24
I don't know either. But I do know that Hortensis Oct 2022 #25
Because the Florida GOP are a bunch of psychopaths? Initech Oct 2022 #7
The correct thing to do... EndlessWire Oct 2022 #10
Very wise proposal nt delisen Oct 2022 #15
That seems reasonable, ergo, would enrage the racist bastards. Hermit-The-Prog Oct 2022 #18
It's possible the grandmother has no interest in coming to the US JI7 Oct 2022 #22
Hence I said "offer." EndlessWire Oct 2022 #23
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