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usonian

(26,924 posts)
33. This is how I feel.
Thu Nov 3, 2022, 06:52 PM
Nov 2022

I am 74, and I have no time for negativity.
Worry is its own reward.

I am an engineer by nature (physics degree) and my first real job was to work error budgets on space telescopes.
One has to be realistic, identify the major sources and deal with them. Focus efforts on the biggest reward for your effort. Don't waste time, energy and money on things that waste them and make no improvement (think: the 80/20 rule)

Worrying is like pushing on a rope.
Taking action is like pulling on a rope. Pull people towards you.



So when I say Be HOPEFUL, WISE and DETERMINED, that is borne out by pop psychology.

It means being realistic, using objective measures (because relying on faulty sources is danger, Will Robinson)
It means focusing on positive energy, because only that gets things done, and
It means not giving in to other people's opinions, which can steer you off course, sap your energy, and sometimes is done deliberately.

The repubs work by a bunch of D's
deny, delay, distort, deceive and distract




Being hopeful, wise and determined corresponds to three Buddhist principles:
Faith, Study and Practice.
In many ways (as cosmic physics is discovering) "With our thoughts, we make the world"

And since the repubs also are over the top in PROJECTION, think about projection.
Projection, in short, is taking your own faults and failures and projecting them on to someone else.

EVERYTHING THEY SAY IS PROJECTION
https://democraticunderground.com/100216777247
Every Accusation is a Confession

I choose to project my inner strength, compassion and goodness.

I am no Pollyanna. I expect things to fail because they do fail. If I have a tool belt ready, and spare fuses, thermocouples, light bulbs and such ready, it's not that I am paranoid (only a little), but it's because I want to feel confident that I can meet challenges as they arise, and not feel helpless. And I help others when I can.

I am not a psychologist, but many people say that taking action is often the best way to beat depression, because it's controlling what you can control and influencing those you can influence, and as I listen to sports talk (sometimes) I find it just amazing that people spend time, energy, and sometimes rage, over things over which they have ZERO influence.

Getting out the vote is something in which each of us agency,
If everyone called or emailed just one friend in their district, outside their district, or out of state, that could have an amazing effect.




OR BE KICKED!

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if people put the same energy in finding contacting people to vote DestinyIsles Nov 2022 #2
This deserves its own post. we can do it Nov 2022 #4
Do it! usonian Nov 2022 #10
Bump and kicked LW1977 Nov 2022 #3
A Pessimistic Peter can be a downer for Debby. wnylib Nov 2022 #27
Both. I do what I can, but try to keep my expectations realistic Amishman Nov 2022 #5
My first real encounter with politics involved moving rubber-tree plants and usonian Nov 2022 #8
Agreed. Realism is NOT the same as "being a downer" FoxNewsSucks Nov 2022 #16
Every election... sarisataka Nov 2022 #6
Yes. BlackSkimmer Nov 2022 #21
I want to get more actively involved. Initech Nov 2022 #7
None of the school board candidates on my local ballot had anything substantive to say. usonian Nov 2022 #11
Same here. Initech Nov 2022 #12
GOTV! GOTV! GOTV! Wednesdays Nov 2022 #9
Yes thank you! This message needs to be made loud and clear FakeNoose Nov 2022 #13
Thank you!!!! ColinC Nov 2022 #14
I'm a Doing-Act-Blue-More-than-I-should-er. n/t pnwmom Nov 2022 #15
Ask friends to vote! Talk to people! Tell young ones & elders about qpuke plans to gut SS & Medicare SheltieLover Nov 2022 #17
Neither n/t GusBob Nov 2022 #18
Wonderful post! Thank you! crickets Nov 2022 #19
I'm doing a Dwayne downer (Debbie is fine) if..fish..had..wings Nov 2022 #20
"DOOMPOSTING" BumRushDaShow Nov 2022 #22
I'll be poll watching this weekend and on election day mcar Nov 2022 #23
Oh, FFS. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #24
Because...? Wednesdays Nov 2022 #28
Because there are two types of people in the world. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #29
I see usonian as someone trying to rally votes for Democrats Wednesdays Nov 2022 #30
I do too. Sad that he has to insult DEMOCRATS who read polls in this OP. Scrivener7 Nov 2022 #31
I'm definitely a DU DUer. Worry is misuse of the imagination. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Nov 2022 #25
There is always time for regrets afterward DFW Nov 2022 #26
Recommended. H2O Man Nov 2022 #32
This is how I feel. usonian Nov 2022 #33
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