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hlthe2b

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5. Once acceptance that death is no longer preventable
Fri Dec 16, 2022, 06:15 AM
Dec 2022

among both patients and family/friends comes to pass, it is common for those surrounding them to hope for it to come quickly. I think this is very normal, but sometimes it causes guilt down the road as grief really sets in. Many hospice staff will warn of this coming emotion when speaking with the visiting families and friends.

May all be at peace and accept that the suffering has ended in its own time.



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My Wife's Friend Is Gone [View all] ProfessorGAC Dec 2022 OP
Condolences. N/t FSogol Dec 2022 #1
... MiHale Dec 2022 #2
Very sorry for your wifes loss nightwing1240 Dec 2022 #3
Hugs GAC to your wife and to you. Duncanpup Dec 2022 #4
Once acceptance that death is no longer preventable hlthe2b Dec 2022 #5
Sending hugs and love gademocrat7 Dec 2022 #6
Peace to all of you malaise Dec 2022 #7
... 2naSalit Dec 2022 #8
Sorry for your loss Meowmee Dec 2022 #9
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Dec 2022 #10
Really sorry to hear that Sympthsical Dec 2022 #11
I'm glad her passing was peaceful. brer cat Dec 2022 #12
Many condolences. Liberal In Texas Dec 2022 #13
(((hugs))) samnsara Dec 2022 #14
Condolences. paleotn Dec 2022 #15
{{{{{Professor}}}}} I'm so sorry she didn't have years more in good highplainsdem Dec 2022 #16
I am sorry. murielm99 Dec 2022 #17
So sorry! I hope your wife has many beautiful memories to cherish secondwind Dec 2022 #18
Those thoughts are good for a long time. Somewhere there is an internet ear and shoulder ... marble falls Dec 2022 #19
Hugs to All Chicagogrl1 Dec 2022 #20
So sorry for you and your wife's loss. pazzyanne Dec 2022 #21
Hugs and vibes. So sorry for your loss. n/t ms liberty Dec 2022 #22
Can you invite her hubby over on Xmas? Warpy Dec 2022 #23
She Never Married ProfessorGAC Dec 2022 #24
Ah, so few loose ends to tie up Warpy Dec 2022 #25
Yeah, The House In KW Is About The Only Thing ProfessorGAC Dec 2022 #27
So Sorry, Condolences, That Really Stinks Beetwasher. Dec 2022 #26
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