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In reply to the discussion: My grandson in college says that it is impossible to meet girls [View all]Lemonwurst
(327 posts)In fact, college for our younger son - now a sophomore at a Northeast state university - has changed him from being the avid gamer recluse he was all during middle and high school, to making many friends and doing all kinds of things he would never do before, like hiking and exploring outdoors.
His college friends are mixed gender and a few of his roommates have girlfriends on campus. He doesnt, not yet, but he did have a non-serious girlfriend in high school so we suspect he will or at least could at college when the time is right.
Its unfortunate if some college students have difficulty making friends and meeting potential partners but what youre describing doesnt seem like a strong pattern overall. I hope your grandson eventually finds a way to hook up with friends at school in a way that makes meeting girls easier, because being a part of some kind of friend group is almost always how that happens with young adults.