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karynnj

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34. If the couple wanted they could chose any kind of stone - or a ring with no stone at all

Mon Jan 16, 2012, 06:45 PM

Jan 2012

I think I would prefer that to a synthetic diamond. The reason is that the ring is symbolic more than anything else. I would prefer that whatever it was, it was true and authentic. There are other stones that do not have the problems that diamonds have.

I have a necklace that has a cut "Cape May diamond" that has been mistaken for a diamond, though it is not as sparkly - and it was far, far cheaper - bought years ago during a Cape May vacation. Here's an article that google found - http://capemay.com/magazine/2011/02/cape-may-diamonds/ (That said, my engagement ring is a diamond.)

However, obviously it would come down to what the couple would be happier with and as long as there is complete honesty between the couple on what it is.

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Considering a ring for your spouse? How about a synthetic diamond? Opinions? [View all] Zalatix Jan 2012 OP

Or you could just dig up your own diamond MadHound Jan 2012 #1

Now that sounds like an educational field trip! Thanks! Zalatix Jan 2012 #15

That's what I was going to say! xmas74 Jan 2012 #23

Even if you don't happen to find one, KamaAina Jan 2012 #29

This has come up before and many SheilaT Jan 2012 #2

Actually it's better if both spouses have similar views on diamonds. Zalatix Jan 2012 #14

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i have a Diamonique ring. DesertFlower Jan 2012 #6

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41 years ago my husband wanted DesertFlower Jan 2012 #8

My Mom (and many Montana women) opted for a Yogo sapphire from Montana - profits stay in Montana :) LiberalLoner Jan 2012 #9

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For stones other than diamond... pipi_k Jan 2012 #54

We decided to forgo a gemstone altogether tkmorris Jan 2012 #13

Why do liberals have to be the ones to make them? They're already being made ... Honeycombe8 Jan 2012 #16

I meant buy them and popularize them, not make them. Zalatix Jan 2012 #19

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i wear silver and semi precious stones DesertFlower Jan 2012 #26

i love silver, too. larimar's my favorite... bedazzled Jan 2012 #53

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That's creepy and cool at the same time! Quantess Jan 2012 #49

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I would consider a sapphire CrawlingChaos Jan 2012 #27

My engagement ring was a sapphire, SheilaT Jan 2012 #47

Colored stones are prettier. Manifestor_of_Light Jan 2012 #28

good for republicans, synthetic love Demonaut Jan 2012 #30

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Cheaper yes. But diamonds are so artificially inflated. Puglover Jan 2012 #42

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+1000 Zalatix Jan 2012 #43

i remember a young woman i worked DesertFlower Jan 2012 #44

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Possibly so - possibly not quaker bill Jan 2012 #50

Maybe if you really wanted to break up but wanted it to be her idea..... Edweird Jan 2012 #41

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K&R Great idea! nt Zorra Jan 2012 #46

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buy an antique. mopinko Jan 2012 #55

I agree with this iwillalwayswonderwhy Jan 2012 #56

Sure...and plastic flowers for the wedding! (eom) CanSocDem Jan 2012 #57

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