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rubbersole

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37. Sorry for your situation, LC.

Wed May 24, 2023, 01:17 AM

May 2023

Ring camera and a fence. We got a camera and it made US feel less vulnerable when we weren't home. (Minor thefts in the neighborhood.) They work really well for the cost. Avoid her and take care.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] LuckyCharms May 2023 OP

Restraining order, cameras and motion lights. sarcasmo May 2023 #1

I have no idea how to get a restraining order. LuckyCharms May 2023 #4

Restraining oerders aren't that difficult to get, but aren't much protection. marble falls May 2023 #9

Bingo DetroitLegalBeagle May 2023 #69

Basically allows a judge to jail the badguy for contempt for breaking the order while other ... marble falls May 2023 #71

Someone at City Hall or the police department could advise you wnylib May 2023 #40

+1 nt Roisin Ni Fiachra May 2023 #70

I might suggest picking up a wireless camera or even a wired one so that you can record CentralMass May 2023 #2

A 15 lb dog? I'd kick his ass squarely and make sure he'd never venture on my property again. OAITW r.2.0 May 2023 #3

Was she like that because she was intoxicated ecstatic May 2023 #5

I don't know if she was under the influence. LuckyCharms May 2023 #18

You neighbor is allowing this to continue. The solution is in his hands. I would talk to my attorney marble falls May 2023 #6

geeeeez, what is it with all the crazies these days? I am so very sorry that niyad May 2023 #7

Cripes, these fucking people with small dogs who think leash laws don't apply to them! intrepidity May 2023 #8

What are the laws where you live about dogs? PoindexterOglethorpe May 2023 #10

We have leash laws. LuckyCharms May 2023 #13

You did escalate by laughing that one time tho... vanlassie May 2023 #20

You would have laughed too. LuckyCharms May 2023 #25

Hope you're right. vanlassie May 2023 #26

Me too. thanks. :) LuckyCharms May 2023 #27

So hold them to the local leash laws. PoindexterOglethorpe May 2023 #39

Lol. There are some really loud cats in my neighborhood ecstatic May 2023 #54

Hm your life reminds me of mine with a few minor differences MutantAndProud May 2023 #11

So her outrageous behavior is from stress? pandr32 May 2023 #12

+1 2naSalit May 2023 #14

Agree. Sounds like the boyfriend is being used and abused by her. Deuxcents May 2023 #19

A lawyer, a realtor and district attorney. Tetrachloride May 2023 #15

i'm so sorry to hear this terrible story orleans May 2023 #16

Been my experience, that Fences make good neighbors. Dan May 2023 #24

our neighbors were always pretty good-- the backyard fence began so we could let our dogs out orleans May 2023 #52

Depending on her age, Ms. Toad May 2023 #17

I echo the suggestion about getting things recorded. progressoid May 2023 #21

Restraining order. cilla4progress May 2023 #22

This message was self-deleted by its author cilla4progress May 2023 #23

Just my ForgedCrank May 2023 #28

This seems reasonable. LuckyCharms May 2023 #32

It's difficult ForgedCrank May 2023 #34

Did she get the restraining order on him? Why have the police been going there? pnwmom May 2023 #41

Ex-wife placed a restraining order on him and LuckyCharms May 2023 #48

Deleted, wrong spot. n/t LuckyCharms May 2023 #49

Also, police have been going there because: LuckyCharms May 2023 #50

You've got really serious problems living next door. yardwork May 2023 #74

also: check into cameras and bear repellent - seriously🤨 bringthePaine May 2023 #29

I live in a country town canetoad May 2023 #30

I hear you. LuckyCharms May 2023 #35

Agreed that this should be on record canetoad May 2023 #42

Just filing a report would not, by itself, escalate things. wnylib May 2023 #47

Your one understandable mistake was making a threat IbogaProject May 2023 #31

I believe he knows about it, but doesn't care. LuckyCharms May 2023 #33

In the interest of de-escalating the situation, you could offer an apology to her diva77 May 2023 #36

Your heart is in a good place. LuckyCharms May 2023 #38

This is not such a bad idea canetoad May 2023 #45

Sorry for your situation, LC. rubbersole May 2023 #37

I find escalation to a neighborhood feud leaves you more to lose than a neighbor. LakeArenal May 2023 #43

This might be the way to go. LuckyCharms May 2023 #44

I would definitely de-escalate womanofthehills May 2023 #46

Call either the cops or animal control. Grumpy Old Guy May 2023 #51

You truly need some cameras. herding cats May 2023 #53

I wouldn't. Warpy May 2023 #55

Fuck it. I'm going to the police station in 4 hours to file a police report. LuckyCharms May 2023 #56

police "did she threaten you?" BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2023 #58

Directly? No. LuckyCharms May 2023 #59

just be prepared. crazy guy chased me around the store parking lot cursing. BlueWaveNeverEnd May 2023 #60

I'm sorry I chased you... LuckyCharms May 2023 #86

I vote for telling him about the steady stream of male visitors. It's his home, & he should know.... Hekate May 2023 #57

Video camera and a spray bottle of vinegar Hermit-The-Prog May 2023 #61

Meth Ampulae May 2023 #62

I'd have a heart to heart with the boyfriend to lay out possible consequences. Nevilledog May 2023 #63

Here's what I did, Nevilledog. LuckyCharms May 2023 #64

Having bad neighbors is exhausting Nevilledog May 2023 #87

Thanks, Nevilledog LuckyCharms May 2023 #88

Ah, the type of woman you'd usually ask "Is she single" Nevilledog May 2023 #89

Hahahahaha! LuckyCharms May 2023 #90

This message was self-deleted by its author DFW May 2023 #65

I don't think she has a firearm. Yet. DFW May 2023 #66

You can get a temporary then permanent restraining order. no_hypocrisy May 2023 #67

Have a female neighbor who gets crazily agitated like your neighbor's girlfriend. We no longer allegorical oracle May 2023 #68

You're right: The male is the crux to a quick fix. He needs to deal with his home situation. marble falls May 2023 #72

Wow Lucky. This isn't an easy situation. Niagara May 2023 #73

Thanks a lot, Niagara. LuckyCharms May 2023 #84

Peace Bonds, Protective Orders, and Restraining Orders May Apply - Attorney Absolutely! MayReasonRule May 2023 #75

You mentioned a fence. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #76

Just the back yard. LuckyCharms May 2023 #78

Yeah, that's kind of like mine. BlackSkimmer May 2023 #80

Ha! I'd have a moat as well. LuckyCharms May 2023 #85

Have you tried making friends with the dog Marthe48 May 2023 #77

Yes, we've both tried. Dog seems to hate everyone. LuckyCharms May 2023 #79

On another post Marthe48 May 2023 #81

I just woke up since I was up until around 500AM because I went and LuckyCharms May 2023 #82

By filing the report Marthe48 May 2023 #83