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In reply to the discussion: Who would want to marry this guy anyway? [View all]ExWhoDoesntCare
(4,741 posts)Is that even most 16 year old girls would find him a loser.
We're well familiar with his "kind," well before 16. I'd say I would have pegged him as a tedious-yet-creepy wanker when I was, oh, 12, as would most of my peers of the same age group. It was only girls who weren't so bright, or who had serious self-esteem issues, who showed any interest in obvious misogynistic creeps like this one.
Women learn fairly early how to spot his type, because our survival depends on it. That's not an exaggeration. They're a danger to us, and nobody is on our side if we suffer consequences for, well, anything, but especially not if we get involved with the wrong sort. Whenever we forgot to be on the lookout for creeps or pedo pervs, we would get lessons so harsh and rapid about the danger of it that we never let down our guard again. If we managed to survive the encounter.