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In reply to the discussion: UPDATE: Today, I will be turning off life support for my father... (He passed away quietly...) [View all]vlyons
(10,252 posts)48. Certainly not a small thing for you.
I'm sorry that you can't attend to these matters personally. Letting your Dad go on to the other shore can be most compassionate for him. Death is in the cards for all of us. Who wants to drag around a tired old worn out body? I'm a 76 yr senior with heart issues, and believe me, getting old is not for sissies.
I'm a Buddhist, and my perspective on death is that unless I am completely and perfectly enlightened, I'll just come back yet another time. So my thought when someone dies is that he/she has the most auspicious rebirth possible.
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UPDATE: Today, I will be turning off life support for my father... (He passed away quietly...) [View all]
Layzeebeaver
May 2023
OP
You've done an incredible job from that distance and served your father well
Docreed2003
May 2023
#6
So sorry to hear. I know what you're goin through... been there with my momz.
InAbLuEsTaTe
May 2023
#10
So sorry for all you've been through, loss of your mother..now this heart wrenching decision
RestoreAmerica2020
May 2023
#12
I am so sorry for you. Such a sad decision to have to make. May your father rest in peace.
LoisB
May 2023
#13
I am sending hugs. May you soon find comfort in remembering the good times with your dad
MLAA
May 2023
#33
You are not alone with this. I, and many here at DU, are holding you in love and sorrow. n/t
TygrBright
May 2023
#44
I'm so sorry to hear about this tragic situation. You're doing what's best,
highplainsdem
May 2023
#49
I will be thinking of you today, but this is not a small nor an easy thing to have to decide.
Backseat Driver
May 2023
#50
Allow for the possibility that your brother simply couldn't cope with watching
Maru Kitteh
May 2023
#55
i am so sorry for the loss of your father...rest in peace to your dad...and i am sorry
dawn5651
May 2023
#60
What a mess. May your Dad cross gently. May you be gentle with yourself. May your brother calm down.
Hekate
May 2023
#68
I'm so sorry for your ordeal. Try not to blame your brother and become bitter.
Liberty Belle
May 2023
#81