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43. Pretty much my wife's experience

Mon Sep 11, 2023, 02:34 PM

Sep 2023

Once they boot you in a layoff group retraining doesn't work. The tech bros don't want to work with dinosaurs or hire their mothers.

Jump to management as soon as you can in tech.

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Retirement delayed and broke anyway [View all] LittleGirl Sep 2023 OP

Kick dalton99a Sep 2023 #1

I got hired at three different jobs PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #2

I worked steadily from '76 to 2006 LittleGirl Sep 2023 #5

Have you checked the Pension Benefit Guaranty Corporation (PBGC) site to see if it might have taken ARPad95 Sep 2023 #58

Oh, yes. The PBGC automatically contacts everyone getting the pension. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #72

I'm not opposed to 401Ks, but I have to quibble with one thing you said. ShazzieB Sep 2023 #84

I'm going to guess that your money did not go to zero. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #90

I didn't say it went to zero. ShazzieB Sep 2023 #99

I'm part of that 90 percent group. progressoid Sep 2023 #3

It does suck! LittleGirl Sep 2023 #4

Same. sybylla Sep 2023 #13

Speaking from experience, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #74

Well, covid has other plans for me at the moment. sybylla Sep 2023 #78

So much free work that women are expected to do. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #80

Yeah, I'm old enough that getting in 35 years isn't possible. sybylla Sep 2023 #98

I totally get it. shrike3 Sep 2023 #6

I graduated in 81. Went to public Grad School in 83-84 during the recession... brooklynite Sep 2023 #7

Glad for you. shrike3 Sep 2023 #8

I have to ask, what is the purpose of this response? I may be reading it wrong, but it sounds KPN Sep 2023 #11

I believe you are correct. nt sheshe2 Sep 2023 #60

I agree as well. ShazzieB Sep 2023 #86

What's Public Grad School???? Farmer-Rick Sep 2023 #25

Hunter College - City University of New York brooklynite Sep 2023 #28

Few in the 80s had that opportunity Warpy Sep 2023 #38

Your last sentence! 🎯 eom LittleGirl Sep 2023 #46

Oh my, yes. n/t shrike3 Sep 2023 #62

In the same boat jmbar2 Sep 2023 #9

Excellent post! LittleGirl Sep 2023 #40

So true. I hate generational animosity and think it's misdirected. LisaM Sep 2023 #82

It is misdirected, for sure LittleGirl Sep 2023 #85

I studied the return on investment to education when i went back to school jmbar2 Sep 2023 #88

Amen to this! ShazzieB Sep 2023 #89

Thank you for sharing your story jmbar2 Sep 2023 #97

Balanced females are commonly better traders than men AllBlue Sep 2023 #91

Thank you for introducing yourself! jmbar2 Sep 2023 #96

Just remember AllBlue Sep 2023 #102

The tech world is brutal Fiendish Thingy Sep 2023 #10

Yep, Chi67 Sep 2023 #17

Yeah, the half life of tech knowledge is getting shorter and shorter getagrip_already Sep 2023 #19

Exactly Chi67 Sep 2023 #23

Cuz every year, skuls are churning out grads with all the latest buzzword skillz... getagrip_already Sep 2023 #27

Same Chi67 Sep 2023 #29

Retirement delayed maliaSmith Sep 2023 #12

I'm glad that you were able to have that happen Quanto Magnus Sep 2023 #35

Staying in single job maliaSmith Sep 2023 #56

Balancing benefits, especially retirement, PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #73

I took the postal exam in 1979. LittleGirl Sep 2023 #47

nice story! I love happy endings Evolve Dammit Sep 2023 #70

Sorry This Happened RobinA Sep 2023 #14

I started college classes in LittleGirl Sep 2023 #48

The pandemic, followed by a family medical crisis, broke my retirement plan. LudwigPastorius Sep 2023 #15

I'm so sorry about your mother LittleGirl Sep 2023 #49

Thanks for your kind words. LudwigPastorius Sep 2023 #51

5,000 miles is a long way when LittleGirl Sep 2023 #52

Being one of the fortunate ones, I feel for those who are caught in this rut DFW Sep 2023 #16

The only thing I can say is that I cannot PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #75

And, I, for my part, cannot imagine retiring at 71. Different strokes for different folks. DFW Sep 2023 #94

I forgot one thing DFW Sep 2023 #103

Pensions, Social Security, and 401K Johnny2X2X Sep 2023 #18

My hubby is my advisor LittleGirl Sep 2023 #50

Those special accounts Johnny2X2X Sep 2023 #53

Excellent post for your 8000th! pandr32 Sep 2023 #20

Thank you! nt LittleGirl Sep 2023 #54

This post hits home with me. Kath2 Sep 2023 #21

Post removed Post removed Sep 2023 #34

I was laid off one week before my 50th birthday The Mouth Sep 2023 #22

County agency job maliaSmith Sep 2023 #36

My case exactly The Mouth Sep 2023 #37

One huge thing about government jobs The Mouth Sep 2023 #100

You're a tail-end boomer like myself. lambchopp59 Sep 2023 #24

I agree, tail-end boomers have far more in common with Gen X. eom shrike3 Sep 2023 #64

Boomers got sold a world of goods... haele Sep 2023 #26

+1 leftstreet Sep 2023 #30

Excellent points ! You've obviously seen it. Nt LittleGirl Sep 2023 #55

Nixon and Reagan were "Silent Generation", as were all their staff and cohorts. haele Sep 2023 #69

During the late 60s and early 70s LittleGirl Sep 2023 #83

This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Sep 2023 #61

I never bought the goods SouthernDem4ever Sep 2023 #66

I'm the same age as you and can affirm everything you posted. yardwork Sep 2023 #31

I am stunned by how many boomers were laid off LittleGirl Sep 2023 #41

And back then women were screwed regarding Social Security LiberalFighter Sep 2023 #32

Exactly. Spot on. eom LittleGirl Sep 2023 #42

Just want to make one correction ... aggiesal Sep 2023 #33

Thank you. I loathe the rightwing propaganda Voltaire2 Sep 2023 #93

Correct. roamer65 Sep 2023 #101

Do you think you would have been better off staying in Germany? SYFROYH Sep 2023 #39

As an American LittleGirl Sep 2023 #44

Pretty much my wife's experience Old Crank Sep 2023 #43

Even that doesn't guarantee anything LittleGirl Sep 2023 #45

Pretty much all IT Old Crank Sep 2023 #77

What a great thread - thanks for putting this out there LittleGirl! erronis Sep 2023 #57

Thank you LittleGirl Sep 2023 #95

Be a Teacher masmdu Sep 2023 #59

Women are the most likely to take time away from their careers TexasBushwhacker Sep 2023 #63

my story Grasswire2 Sep 2023 #65

This message was self-deleted by its author elocs Sep 2023 #67

Kick and kick and kick... Backseat Driver Sep 2023 #68

So true. Very little empathy for women who have to reinvent themselves after 50 flamingdem Sep 2023 #71

Oh, Dear God, THIS!!! calimary Sep 2023 #76

I understand your pain. I didn't have it because I was financially astute when my company Wonder Why Sep 2023 #79

You/ve made a lot of wonderful points. PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2023 #81

The US Bureau of Labor Statistics shows older workers have the fastest rate of growth in Ziggysmom Sep 2023 #87

Started working right outta college in 1975 just as a few enlightened men started considering women calimary Sep 2023 #92