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In reply to the discussion: Retirement delayed and broke anyway [View all]calimary
(89,132 posts)as hireable peers. My first few jobs were because they needed to add a woman to the staff. Climbed up through bigger and better jobs til I got to the AP. And then made permanent. And with a secure job - in broadcasting, no less, I started wondering if we better start a family before my eggs got stale.
By the time years had passed and I had two little ones, I realized I had a slowly developing case of divided loyalties, and that I couldnt sustain trying to serve two masters. One of em had to go. So it was the job.
And that was the end of my brilliant career. I never worked again. But contentment came with that. Id wound up with a job that was far more fulfilling. FAR more. And no regrets.
The job wont ever love you back.