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pnwmom

(110,326 posts)
Thu Oct 26, 2023, 06:32 PM Oct 2023

People should stop blaming 40 yr. old Robert Card's FAMILY for not taking his guns away. [View all]

Card isn't a child. He's a single adult, whose only son (a recent high school graduate) has been living with an ex-wife Card divorced in 2007.

The "family" quoted in the articles consisted of a brother and a sister-in-law who HAD repeatedly reached out to the Army with their concerns about his mental health. It wasn't his brother's job to break into Card's home and remove his weapons.

The Army sent him for two weeks of mental health treatment this summer, because of their own observations of his behavior -- and they notified law enforcement.

So the FAMILY had done their part. It was the AUTHORITIES who fell down on the job.

https://abcnews.go.com/US/maine-mass-shooting-suspect/story?id=104342351

Card was previously married. His ex-wife filed for the divorce, citing irreconcilable differences, which was granted in 2007 with shared custody of the couple's minor child, court documents show. The divorce order was amended in 2013 to include shared parental rights and responsibilities of the child, whose primary residence was with his mother, the documents show.

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A U.S. Defense Department official confirmed to ABC News that Card was "behaving erratically" while deployed over the summer with his Army Reserve Unit to Camp Smith Training Center in upstate New York to support summer training for West Point cadets.

Leaders of the Army Reserve's 3rd Battalion, 304th Infantry Regiment informed garrison staff at the training site about his behavior on July 17, the defense official said.

"Out of concern for his safety, the unit requested that law enforcement be contacted," the official said.


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NRA and GQP make sure the blame goes somewhere else....................... Lovie777 Oct 2023 #1
Unfortunately, there are DUers who've been saying that, so I was reacting to them. pnwmom Oct 2023 #2
sometimes family are the only ones who can act. maxsolomon Oct 2023 #3
In the Card's case the family did what they could -- reporting him. pnwmom Oct 2023 #8
It's unknown if anything could be done. NutmegYankee Oct 2023 #4
Maine has a yellow flag law ripcord Oct 2023 #13
And in practice is worthless. NutmegYankee Oct 2023 #19
I was reminded that the two mass shooters BigmanPigman Oct 2023 #5
It is ALSO on lawmakers who take NRA $ and refuse to ban sale of assault weapons of war to public Attilatheblond Oct 2023 #15
I agree LiberalFighter Oct 2023 #6
This may not be on point, but the family is described as being pro-militia. John1956PA Oct 2023 #7
He's 40, so the family he grew up in isn't around anymore, except for one brother. pnwmom Oct 2023 #9
Yes. Robert Card's parents are alive and are remaining silent. John1956PA Oct 2023 #14
The parents couldn't have stopped him, either. He was hearing voices. pnwmom Oct 2023 #16
Robert Card was a loose cannon. John1956PA Oct 2023 #18
Well, the whole state of Maine has a gun culture that could have contributed, too. pnwmom Oct 2023 #20
Not all states have red flag laws, unfortunately NickB79 Oct 2023 #10
Exactly. The brother (the only "family") would have been risking his life pnwmom Oct 2023 #11
I've only seen people blaming politicians and law enforcement ecstatic Oct 2023 #12
100% WarGamer Oct 2023 #17
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