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Greybnk48

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30. We had the same parents! I have a funny story about bra money.
Thu Feb 15, 2024, 10:37 PM
Feb 2024

When i was 19 (1967), I flew from the midwest to meet my fiance in Alaska (to get married). My family and I had to look up where Ketchikan was as we had never heard of it. My mom was so afraid of me going by myself, she cried for two days. I was actually scared too, but hid it.
About the money. She pinned all of my cash in my bra with a diaper pin! The kind with the big plastic tip, lol. When I got off the plane in Seattle I really had to use the bathroom. I went into the lady's room at Sea-Tac only to find EVERY stall was "pay-to-pee." I had no change and all of my bills were in my bra.
I tried to wait until the bathroom was empty, but that did not seem like it was going to happen in time for me to get the money out, get change, and come back to pee. So the minute no one was there, I crawled under the door like an animal. I was wearing an cute plaid A-line skirt, Peter Pan collar white blouse, nylons, and dress shoes, because everyone dressed up to fly back then.
Here's how well trained I was. I only took out a $20 and pinned the rest back in there like my mom showed me! They all had a good laugh when I wrote and told them what happened!

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Our grandmothers and mothers all stashed some money away. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #1
I have tried to stash money away, but I always spend it on my grandchildren so I gave up. barbaraann Feb 2024 #2
It is such a joy to give grandchildren treats! redwitch Feb 2024 #38
Oh, yes! barbaraann Feb 2024 #49
I got the same advice. I'm glad I took that advice as it helped me a lot Deuxcents Feb 2024 #3
Mom had $15K stashed in multigraincracker Feb 2024 #4
Yeah my Mom never had to say it, I always did after realizing she could not get out. Bev54 Feb 2024 #5
Didn't happen in my family. elleng Feb 2024 #6
Neither grandmother stashed a bit of money away for a rainy day? Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #14
I'm not aware of it. elleng Feb 2024 #19
The whole point of the secret stash is that it was secret. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #25
I was told the same.... CousinIT Feb 2024 #7
My mom always keeps about $500 stashed away in the house. Staph Feb 2024 #8
my parents insisted I hide money in my home I shared agingdem Feb 2024 #9
My Jewish friends tell very similar stories. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #16
A friend of my Grandma called it her Widows' Pension. Talitha Feb 2024 #32
My mom was a waitress gab13by13 Feb 2024 #10
Lovely story. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #18
I used to find new shiney pennies all the time, I have no idea who they're from Merlot Feb 2024 #26
My depression era grandfather use to bury money. Emile Feb 2024 #11
My parents always had money stashed away, badhair77 Feb 2024 #12
Remember when we went on dates, we were supposed to have money to call home or call a cab. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #13
Absolutely! My dad always tucked money in my pocket or purse Greybnk48 Feb 2024 #17
Or tucked in your bra. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #20
We had the same parents! I have a funny story about bra money. Greybnk48 Feb 2024 #30
That's a great story! Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #43
Exactly! niyad Feb 2024 #33
I remember that too! We called it 'mad' money. Talitha Feb 2024 #34
Exactly. It was called mad money. You made sure you had mad money when you went out on a date. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #44
I'm 75, and I ALWAYS keep at least $1000 in cash at our house, Greybnk48 Feb 2024 #15
for years ive kept all my farmers market money.. samnsara Feb 2024 #21
My Mother always told me to stash money away kimbutgar Feb 2024 #22
About 15 years ago, a bad storm came and wiped out area power for almost two weeks. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #23
That environment needs to be considered. LiberalFighter Feb 2024 #27
Yes no one realized what would happen if power is out for a long time. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #29
I had a similar situation after the 1989 earthquake in SF. All the teller machines were down. diane in sf Feb 2024 #35
Yes everywhere, stores, gas stations, etc. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #37
Yikes. I'd be so screwed ecstatic Feb 2024 #36
Yes $100 would be good. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #41
If all of these stories were out in public it would give people a different view. LiberalFighter Feb 2024 #24
The reasons for cash are many unc70 Feb 2024 #28
Yes most of our grandmothers could not legally have their own bank accounts. Irish_Dem Feb 2024 #42
A very wise older friend told me that every woman should have a secret niyad Feb 2024 #31
So did my mum and paternal gradma malaise Feb 2024 #39
Fani is young enough to be my daughter. LeftInTX Feb 2024 #40
I'm white, my father grew up poor, he always carried hundreds of dollars in his wallet Model35mech Feb 2024 #45
I'm gen x and my wife and I stash away cash Buckeyeblue Feb 2024 #46
I carry a penny in my wallet JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2024 #47
I'm a guy and I keep $2000 in my handgun lockbox in my car. SYFROYH Feb 2024 #48
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