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markpkessinger

(8,401 posts)
Mon Mar 25, 2024, 03:39 PM Mar 25

How NOT to respond to posts expressing extreme frustration and anger over the ruling reducing Trump's bond [View all]

A lot of people are making comments today borne of frustration and perfectly understandable anger. But responding to them with lectures on how they are hurting Biden or helping Trump is perhaps the least helpful way to respond, even if you believe that to be true.

Look, these posts are coming out of raw emotion. Many of the people who post them will cool down after they've had a chance to work through those emotions. People are entitled to their emotions, and are entitled to express them. We should all respect that. But to respond to posts expressing legitimate emotions with a kind of cool, detached rationality does nothing to help them process those emotions in a productive way. And in some cases, it may only serve to entrench them in their initial emotional response.

Just my two cents, but please consider refraining from the need to "correct" the people who are making these postings, at least until after they've had a reasonable opportunity to fully grapple with the emotions they are experiencing!

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Thank you for this. We are all so over this MOMFUDSKI Mar 25 #1
Thank you. Think. Again. Mar 25 #2
Thanks for your post bdamomma Mar 25 #3
there are a few repeat doomcasters in that flurry of resignations of hope today bigtree Mar 25 #4
I agree. maptap22 Mar 25 #5
My wife and I decided we will stay where we are and fight ArkansasDemocrat1 Mar 25 #22
Excellent post. anciano Mar 25 #6
Baloney. edisdead Mar 25 #7
I'm glad you don't make the rules. n/t markpkessinger Mar 25 #8
No kidding! n/t birdographer Mar 25 #15
Let's remind ourselves that Chump didn't "win" his appeal FakeNoose Mar 25 #9
I'm well aware of that . . . markpkessinger Mar 25 #10
Between you and me, I think Judge Engoren gave a little wiggle room FakeNoose Mar 25 #12
OR..... birdographer Mar 25 #16
These are the five judges on the appeal panel that reduced the bond: Ocelot II Mar 25 #27
And the five of them couldn't produce a sentence to explain what they did? dalton99a Mar 25 #33
THIS orangecrush Mar 25 #34
I've been using these posts to make the point that we have no control over these things, but there are things we can do. usonian Mar 25 #11
Perhaps we need a forum labeled "Rants and Vents" Raven123 Mar 25 #13
one persons rants and vents are perfectly reasonable responses to other persons nt msongs Mar 25 #14
Or "Dooming and Premature Surrender" emulatorloo Mar 25 #26
Solid advice. People may not realize it, but for some of our members this is the only safe haven they have to vent. bluesbassman Mar 25 #17
Exactly! FHRRK Mar 25 #18
i recommend watching this video. barbtries Mar 25 #19
We are living in unprecedented times PatSeg Mar 25 #20
There is A Certan Group among us Orrex Mar 25 #21
Ah, shit stirrers and trolls are everywhere ArkansasDemocrat1 Mar 25 #23
And don't get snowed in DoBW Mar 25 #24
Bravo. Well spoken. RobertDevereaux Mar 25 #25
Two weeks from now none of this will matter Tom of Temecula Mar 25 #28
It will matter, tho. Every day it's another freakout. All Mixed Up Mar 25 #32
My hope is Biden has some really gnarly shit on Orange Boy ... Tom of Temecula Mar 25 #41
I prefer H2O Man Mar 25 #29
That's good advice for many of the threads that are posted here. Xavier Breath Mar 25 #30
How about everyone just pick a thread and do their bellyaching there? All Mixed Up Mar 25 #31
Don't worry we are down for updates tonight. Hope22 Mar 25 #36
I'm sure by the time it's back up, we'll have something new to freak out about. All Mixed Up Mar 25 #38
It's always something! 🤣😂n/t Hope22 Mar 25 #40
How many DUers do you imagine will withhold their votes in protest? Orrex Mar 26 #42
What nonsense. All Mixed Up Mar 26 #43
If one neighbor was shitting on your porch and another wasn't, which would you discuss? Orrex Mar 26 #45
Huh? All Mixed Up Mar 26 #46
Far be it from me to call out a longstanding DUer Orrex Mar 26 #47
I never said anyone is supporting Trump. All Mixed Up Mar 26 #50
I look forward to your many years of positive contributions to this site. Orrex Mar 26 #52
Hopefully by that point every other thread isn't about Trump. All Mixed Up Mar 26 #53
A rule against venting? orangecrush Mar 25 #35
You nailed it, short and sweet gab13by13 Mar 26 #51
Just a small bump. Shoonra Mar 25 #37
Thank you for this kind and understanding post Just_Vote_Dem Mar 25 #39
People get called out for saying stupid things, not for being emotional. SYFROYH Mar 26 #44
Would that this were so Orrex Mar 26 #48
Rec AKwannabe Mar 26 #49
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