My hubby & I made approx same salary for 17 years

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23. Financial stress is cause to get upset, but not say "there's the door"

First of all, you've been out of work for less than 2 months and you've applied for plenty of jobs, so you're doing all you can.

I can see how he might get very upset about the situation in general. I'd try maybe talking to him about what he suggests cut back on. Not that there necessarily is anything else you can cut back on, but sometimes it just helps people to talk out the situation and have someone listen to them.

Of course I would do that AFTER he apologizes for saying "there's the door".