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7. Left this out of my reply:
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 01:51 PM
Apr 2024

I am in a union state and have had amazing support in the past from my union. I was their Teacher of Excellence a few years ago (the Union's version of Teacher of the Year...kind of).

We had a month-long strike this year to address safety issues, support and more. Our school has filed grievances to address these issues. I use my platform as a pretty well-known educator to advance the discussion on this topic. My list of injuries is a bit more extreme, due to the nature of the type of programs I have worked in, but every teacher has a list. Nobody talks about that, but every teacher has a list.

That becomes sickeningly clear when I publish on the topic. The essay I linked above led to hundreds and hundred of messages from teachers who would not speak publicly but shared heartbreaking stories of physical abuse. I'm a big guy. My arms are bigger than a lot of people's legs. So is my neck, come to think of it. But when someone writes you saying, "I'm 5'2"..." it scares me. I can barely do this job with my size and strength behind me.

The public does not know what it means when a kid, in "fight or flight" mode, chooses fight. It means they are fighting as if their life depends on it. My size is what has kept me safe. I'm the only male teacher in my K-6 program and I'm getting the stuffing knocked out of me at times. Our coaches even take worse.

I can say that almost all of my injuries have occurred because of a lack of staffing, a lack of experienced co-workers or a lack of a proper physical space to help disregulated students. So, I remain a squeaky wheel doing crazy things like publicly demanding that the US Government FINALLY fund IDEA. That great piece of lawmaking has never been fully funded by the government and so has never been fully implemented. Instead they are spending their time writing bills that protect dishwashers from having to be energy efficient.

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Take care of yourself. Get a doc's note to stay home. Thanks for sharing, but please put yourself first. lindysalsagal Apr 2024 #1
Thank you. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #2
This whole post just has me reeling. mahina Apr 2024 #3
I work in a program to support kids who need a LOT of behavioral supports. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #11
I am in so much admiration of you and your dedication. Thanks from me and most of society! erronis Apr 2024 #14
It's the paraeducators that get my admiration. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #24
Left this out of my reply: Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #7
It's a wonder anyone works under these conditions although saw similar in ER in the hospital I worked at. dutch777 Apr 2024 #4
My program also houses the home-tutoring program. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #22
Special Ed Is Tough ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #5
I took over K-2 special Ed class because the teacher was having a nervous breakdown. kimbutgar Apr 2024 #10
I've filled similar shoes before too Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #12
I Don't Blame You ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #16
Who use the computer and iPads to raise their children ! kimbutgar Apr 2024 #23
Even As A Sub, I Can Tell Too ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #28
LOL....I've met four year olds who use the iPad better than me. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #29
I work with my families as a team. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #25
It's funny--when I was subbing I really dreaded some general ed classes. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #26
Good Story ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #27
Special Education Faces Additional Challenges With In-Person Learning During COVID-19 Goonch Apr 2024 #6
Teaching in a mask.... miserable! Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #30
I feel your pain Teacher of the year kimbutgar Apr 2024 #8
I keep think it will right itself, you know? Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #31
My heart goes out to you and to your students, my dear Teacher . . . CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2024 #9
My husband, very carefully, said something similar to me last night, Peggy. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #13
Your husband is an intelligent and caring gentleman. Listening to him could save your life. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2024 #15
He's right Three concussions is three months is two too many Warpy Apr 2024 #21
I feel for all you teachers! slightlv Apr 2024 #17
I would call her a hero too! Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #32
Hang in there, brother! What you do is important. CapnSteve Apr 2024 #18
Oh, and I tore my Achilles in my right ankle at school (hopscotch)... CapnSteve Apr 2024 #19
Hugs, man Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #38
Near the end of my teaching career, I transferred to an urban district. High school - It didn't have special ed. Rather, 3Hotdogs Apr 2024 #20
my bosses wife teach special ed....... Takket Apr 2024 #33
My friend was a Special Ed teacher pfitz59 Apr 2024 #34
This much physical violence is the norm for special ed teachers? Silent3 Apr 2024 #35
No one would guess. Aussie105 Apr 2024 #37
Couple of comments from a distance. Aussie105 Apr 2024 #36
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