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11. I work in a program to support kids who need a LOT of behavioral supports.
Sat Apr 20, 2024, 01:29 PM
Apr 2024

I love my job and it is HUGE when your students make gains in self control. I sometimes get to see the moment it clicks for a kid and their whole lives pivot on that very moment. I sometimes get to see the look on a parent's face after they see their first big moment at home.

There is a funny block of jobs in this country where dealing with violence simply happens. People can be violent and other people deal with them. Nurses, hospital workers, teachers, special ed teachers (I list them as two groups because there is a difference that needs to be talked about) paramedics, police and first responders, so many more. The difference is only a few of those groups are trying to change the behavior. Changing behavior means a long, thought out plan to create the environment where behavioral change can occur. And that means you deal with the behavior, as you lay the foundation to change them.

My program takes kids in crisis, and the goal is to change the behavior, then send them back to their neighborhood school so they continue on with their peers, but now with the skills to succeed.

It's an honorable job, but on the more rough-and-tumble side that most people don't really see so they don't even know it exists. When you say "I'm a teacher," people picture their own classroom experience and imagine my job to be like the rooms they remember from their own childhood. My room is not like Miss Williams' room, 2rd grade, Lake Tahoe, circa 1971.

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Take care of yourself. Get a doc's note to stay home. Thanks for sharing, but please put yourself first. lindysalsagal Apr 2024 #1
Thank you. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #2
This whole post just has me reeling. mahina Apr 2024 #3
I work in a program to support kids who need a LOT of behavioral supports. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #11
I am in so much admiration of you and your dedication. Thanks from me and most of society! erronis Apr 2024 #14
It's the paraeducators that get my admiration. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #24
Left this out of my reply: Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #7
It's a wonder anyone works under these conditions although saw similar in ER in the hospital I worked at. dutch777 Apr 2024 #4
My program also houses the home-tutoring program. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #22
Special Ed Is Tough ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #5
I took over K-2 special Ed class because the teacher was having a nervous breakdown. kimbutgar Apr 2024 #10
I've filled similar shoes before too Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #12
I Don't Blame You ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #16
Who use the computer and iPads to raise their children ! kimbutgar Apr 2024 #23
Even As A Sub, I Can Tell Too ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #28
LOL....I've met four year olds who use the iPad better than me. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #29
I work with my families as a team. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #25
It's funny--when I was subbing I really dreaded some general ed classes. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #26
Good Story ProfessorGAC Apr 2024 #27
Special Education Faces Additional Challenges With In-Person Learning During COVID-19 Goonch Apr 2024 #6
Teaching in a mask.... miserable! Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #30
I feel your pain Teacher of the year kimbutgar Apr 2024 #8
I keep think it will right itself, you know? Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #31
My heart goes out to you and to your students, my dear Teacher . . . CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2024 #9
My husband, very carefully, said something similar to me last night, Peggy. Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #13
Your husband is an intelligent and caring gentleman. Listening to him could save your life. CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2024 #15
He's right Three concussions is three months is two too many Warpy Apr 2024 #21
I feel for all you teachers! slightlv Apr 2024 #17
I would call her a hero too! Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #32
Hang in there, brother! What you do is important. CapnSteve Apr 2024 #18
Oh, and I tore my Achilles in my right ankle at school (hopscotch)... CapnSteve Apr 2024 #19
Hugs, man Teacher of the Year Apr 2024 #38
Near the end of my teaching career, I transferred to an urban district. High school - It didn't have special ed. Rather, 3Hotdogs Apr 2024 #20
my bosses wife teach special ed....... Takket Apr 2024 #33
My friend was a Special Ed teacher pfitz59 Apr 2024 #34
This much physical violence is the norm for special ed teachers? Silent3 Apr 2024 #35
No one would guess. Aussie105 Apr 2024 #37
Couple of comments from a distance. Aussie105 Apr 2024 #36
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