On "Bitch" and other Misogynist language

[Sissyk]

91. Thank you, Little Star!

Talking about it is part of the healing process. Believe me, I've talked about it for years and years until my therapist and family probably wanted to plug their ears! lol!

I understand all about trigger words. Believe me, I do! I brought it up because of your statement "too ignorant to understand the difference". I understand the difference, but wanted to try and show that some words seem misogynistic and/or hurtful to some while to others they may not be misogynistic and/or hurtful. I dont believe I, myself, can tell any one else which words they should be hurt or offended by.

I'm not making myself very clear here, I know. Let me try to explain. I have been reading here lately about "some" words being "trigger" words and therefore should not be used on DU because they may trigger someone's past. I was just trying to point out, that words like fuck, that is not considered misogynistic, can be someone else's trigger word whereas p c b and twat may not bother them. However, again, due to not wanting to be a victim my whole live, I was able to overcome the pain and fear I once had of the word fuck. I guess in doing that, I also overcame the fear and pain of the other words. They hold no power over me any more than fuck.

I try to focus my time on preventing rape, equal pay for women (I work in a men's field), and more women in government. Word wars I dont have time for. I'm not saying it is not important to some and they can do it all. However, I realize this is a public message board that has all kinds of people from all walks of like, each with different experiences. Therefore, I try to realize I am one of many on the board and there are placing (forums, boards) I may go to if I don't want to be involved with all the people.

I know this is scattered, and probably doesn't make any sense but I am tired. Ive worked 29 hours straight and need to get some sleep. Thanks for "reading" me, anyway.

Have a Good Evening, Little Star!