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PatSeg

(53,245 posts)
61. I lived in Mississippi for about 5 minutes
Thu May 2, 2024, 01:11 PM
May 2024

when I was young, about the age when you left. I was born and raised in the Chicago area and the culture shock blew me away. I had no idea how bad it really was until I lived there. This was right before the Civil Rights Act passed. I may have seen you leaving!

I remember graffiti on the lockers at school: "The South will Rise again" and "Rebels". My American History teacher entered me in an essay contest and the prize was a portrait of Jefferson Davis for the school. Fortunately, I didn't win.

The racism was rather nonchalant and accepted like the weather, just a part of normal life. If I questioned people about it (which I did frequently), they were often caught off guard, as they apparently had never questioned it.

And the N-word was used in casual conversation without second thought, as if it was an acceptable noun like Italians or Germans. "Granny hired a N-word to clean the apartment for me." (A friend actually wrote that to me in a letter.) They felt no need to use a more polite word, because they saw nothing wrong with it. I think the casualness is what was the most offensive. It was rarely in anger or necessarily hateful, it was just their name for black people. Of course, there was anger and hate, but most of the time it was maddeningly ordinary.

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Cheato just called Chris Christie [View all] senseandsensibility May 2024 OP
What's wrong with these people? Irish_Dem May 2024 #1
Not to mention senseandsensibility May 2024 #4
I had the same thought. Irish_Dem May 2024 #5
Yes. However, despite the orange pancake makeup Golden Raisin May 2024 #47
Yes narcissists think they are exquisite and beautiful. Irish_Dem May 2024 #48
TSF "Sees" in a mirror the image of itself as it was back in 1979.. Traurigkeit May 2024 #68
Empathy is for the liberals etc RANDYWILDMAN May 2024 #70
They are targeting that dark underbelly because it the language that they admire....sadly. walkingman May 2024 #30
Same people who lecture everyone about morality. Irish_Dem May 2024 #33
I was born and reared in rural South Mississippi AverageOldGuy May 2024 #36
Do you know authors of the two books cited? Evolve Dammit May 2024 #38
I looked it up. ShazzieB May 2024 #49
Thanks for that! Evolve Dammit May 2024 #62
Good God. Irish_Dem May 2024 #40
I lived in Mississippi for about 5 minutes PatSeg May 2024 #61
I understand Cherokee100 May 2024 #66
..Like 10 year old schoolyard bullies whathehell May 2024 #37
They are what I like to call the dregs of humanity. llmart May 2024 #50
Yes the worst of human nature in action. Irish_Dem May 2024 #52
how to draw a pig Celerity May 2024 #58
whow. riversedge May 2024 #77
Please don't - just go away lame54 May 2024 #2
I doubt Crisco will DARE cross Cheeto-the-Hutt in any real way peppertree May 2024 #29
The crowd roared. elleng May 2024 #3
Many in that crowd... PJMcK May 2024 #22
Tells you all you need to know about them. calimary May 2024 #44
How dare he! Blue Owl May 2024 #6
Let me explain.... LakeArenal May 2024 #18
Exactly Ray Bruns May 2024 #45
Grandpa Farticus malaise May 2024 #25
Credit goes to Jeff Tiedrich for that one!!!! Blue Owl May 2024 #55
But, but my $99 NFT cards show him really ripped... rubbersole May 2024 #34
Said "bull shit" twice...... a kennedy May 2024 #7
Wow. senseandsensibility May 2024 #8
That would be a BFD JoseBalow May 2024 #43
I see what you did there! senseandsensibility May 2024 #54
Because Trump is so glamorous Johonny May 2024 #9
Oh he's eye candy alright senseandsensibility May 2024 #10
LOL! 2naSalit May 2024 #11
Glad I could lighten the mood! senseandsensibility May 2024 #17
He is so repulsive Danmel May 2024 #12
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Hehehehhhee rec malaise May 2024 #26
Can you imagine Melania ironing? senseandsensibility May 2024 #28
That's OK. Hope will steam them anytime...... Evolve Dammit May 2024 #41
I detest the man, but at the same time, I've always admired Crunchy Frog May 2024 #13
The problem is simply this: Dan May 2024 #14
Indeed. See also: Bill Barr. WestMichRad May 2024 #31
Fear Of Speaking Up HandmaidsTaleUntold May 2024 #64
TSF is the PIG. iluvtennis May 2024 #15
My hubby loved this! senseandsensibility May 2024 #21
Too good malaise May 2024 #27
Who would a Christie endorsement influence? brooklynite May 2024 #19
king magat... myohmy2 May 2024 #20
The enemy of my enemy KentuckyWoman May 2024 #23
Oh dear Rebl2 May 2024 #24
I think most people could use that advice. former9thward May 2024 #51
Such a juvenile approach to campaigning.... OAITW r.2.0 May 2024 #32
That is MAGA in a nutshell senseandsensibility May 2024 #63
I though grandpa farticus was whining because he could not campaign. niyad May 2024 #35
Oh don't worry. He'll whine about that, too. calimary May 2024 #46
pot... kettle......... Takket May 2024 #39
Fuck Christie too. live love laugh May 2024 #42
Absolutely for now, Christie is like Cheney! PortTack May 2024 #53
Hey.. look who's talking. Cha May 2024 #56
He really pissed me off several weeks ago when he joined in the "Biden dimentia" bullshit Maraya1969 May 2024 #57
This is what Freud called anamnua May 2024 #59
They would all cheer incredibly if he used the N word, or the R word hibbing May 2024 #60
Pot, meet Kettle Bundbuster May 2024 #65
Christie was the first major Repuke to endorse Trump in 2016 NNadir May 2024 #67
Is Christie on TSF's VP shortlist now? 0rganism May 2024 #69
Speaking of "fat pigs." Botany May 2024 #71
"Cheato" Skittles May 2024 #72
THIS guy judges the appearance of others Skittles May 2024 #73
Von Shitzenpants🤣 sheshe2 May 2024 #76
The bdamomma May 2024 #74
Well, he can't talk about E. Jean anymore. She shut him up, but good. 😂 GoodRaisin May 2024 #75
VonShitzinPants Frances May 2024 #78
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