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In reply to the discussion: The college class on avoiding rape. Please move on, nothing to see here. [View all]bettyellen
(47,209 posts)but you chose to do the "calm down little lady" thing. You didn't even realize I was throwing it back at you? Ooops. I thought it was pretty funny. Now that you see it bothers you, maybe you'll think twice about that patronizing attitude if you'd like to have respectful discourse. Just saying, you were totally projecting on that one. I was told yesterday I was angry and mean because I don't give a shit about someones feelings. Let me tell you, I don't have to be one bit angry not to care about someone I don;t know, who's peddling nonsense.
You've missed a lot of crazy posts from men- including fear of civil rights infringement because we supposedly want to force education on every man. And hundred of posts saying we are claiming we're saying all men are rapists and we're stereotyping them and this is sooooo much more important than the conversation we're attempting to have. You may have missed it, but it's there.
A lot of men want to steer the conversation to be all about their paranoid fears and hurt feelings. They litter every thread with nonsense. You may not care, but there is something very wrong with that if it's your conversation being thread jacked again and again . And I think the phenomenon of these men;s resistance- as ugly as it is- can tell us something about our culture.
Just food for thought.