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hfojvt

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44. yes, but the funny thing is that

Reply to La Lioness Priyanka (Reply #42)

Tue Dec 4, 2012, 07:31 PM

Dec 2012

nobody lives as a group

and when you speak about "a group", that is necessarily not true of the whole group.

As for "men like me" whatever that means. No, I am not the norm anywhere, and yes I do challenge the conventional wisdom. I happen to be a blue collar worker in the bottom quintile - not the norm on DU, which is much more white collar and much wealthier. I could laugh about "male privilege" too, if I was in the top 40% instead of the bottom 20%.

I have seen many of those studies, and find them wanting. But most people do not challenge a "study" that tells them what they want to believe.

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There are many men on DU who are supportive of women's rights [View all] La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 OP

+ a zillion TDale313 Dec 2012 #1

thanks La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #2

Yup. n/t Gormy Cuss Dec 2012 #7

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what you said. :D roguevalley Dec 2012 #65

I think that men on DU who don't support women's equality are outliers. immoderate Dec 2012 #3

GMTA. i literally just typed this upthread La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #4

+ a zillion also too lol LiberalLoner Dec 2012 #5

Yes, the majority of men here have been supportive gollygee Dec 2012 #6

I am so grateful to our wonderful male allies who do take our lives seriously. myrna minx Dec 2012 #8

Very true! LisaLynne Dec 2012 #9

so valued, appreciated and important. please, do not ever think otherwise. seabeyond Dec 2012 #10

You & your pics! CrispyQ Dec 2012 #28

i am tired of the negative and the fighting when i feel the insight and growth. sooooo.......... seabeyond Dec 2012 #36

I support the women of DU and in the world with women's rights steve2470 Dec 2012 #11

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Although I can't speak for them. I would hope the women in my life would put me in this category. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Dec 2012 #33

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Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Dec 2012 #38

"the experience of being a woman differs from being a man" hfojvt Dec 2012 #41

LOL. as a group men do not have these obstacles, individual men may La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #42

yes, but the funny thing is that hfojvt Dec 2012 #44

gender is not the underlying cause of worry, when these things worry men La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #45

the underlying cause does not seem like the issue hfojvt Dec 2012 #54

because gender does not oppress men La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #62

again, that seems like an absurd framework hfojvt Dec 2012 #73

We are not attacking you. We know life sucks for everyone. We are asking you to hear us LiberalLoner Dec 2012 #50

I don't think life sucks for everyone hfojvt Dec 2012 #61

Thank you for replying! It really opens my LiberalLoner Dec 2012 #64

I've seen men stop women from doing bad things, just with a few words. tama Dec 2012 #66

Yup, I've seen plenty of evil women too! I think it takes all of us speaking out when we LiberalLoner Dec 2012 #77

alas---we ARE all in this together dembotoz Dec 2012 #43

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Yes. Thank you. We know almost all of you here DevonRex Dec 2012 #47

Damn Straight! I accept your thanks Agony Dec 2012 #48

yes. that. right there. THAT is all that is being asked. seabeyond Dec 2012 #60

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Thank you, La Lioness Priyanka... Ferretherder Dec 2012 #49

Excellent!!! n/t RKP5637 Dec 2012 #51

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Very nice, LLP, thank you. nt Zorra Dec 2012 #53

Great post. thucythucy Dec 2012 #55

I would say the vast majority do Marrah_G Dec 2012 #56

so true. La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #58

K&R - nt Ohio Joe Dec 2012 #57

You dang right. Aristus Dec 2012 #59

Our rights too daybranch Dec 2012 #67

this should be an op La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #70

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a dozen great guys all in one family... notgoinback Dec 2012 #69

La Lioness Priyanka - thank you lovemydog Dec 2012 #71

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Well said and I add my Thanks Liberalynn Dec 2012 #78

Reading the book "The Gift of Fear" helped me understand what it is like for women in society. Nye Bevan Dec 2012 #80

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