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3. What anxious parents of neurodivergent children can learn from Tim and Gwen Walz
Thu Aug 22, 2024, 12:43 PM
Aug 2024

Gus is neurodivergent and the Walz family is doing an amazing job of raising Gus



https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/tim-walz-children-gus-neurodivergent-rcna166748

Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz’s open acknowledgement that he and his wife used fertility treatments to conceive their two children and his candid discussions about that generated one of the most moving moments during a rally in Glendale, Arizona, when people chanted the name of his firstborn daughter, Hope. The positive reaction to the candidate’s discussion of the topic confirms the thumbs-up that Vice President Kamala Harris got for choosing her running mate from every faction of the Democratic Party — from moderates such as Rep. Abigail Spanberger, D-Va.; progressives such as Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, D-N.Y.; and even erstwhile conservative Democrat Sen. Joe Manchin, I-W.Va., who left the party this year.

But Tim and Gwen Walz also deserve positive attention for the way they’ve discussed their son, Gus, who came into the national spotlight thanks to a piece in People magazine, about his nonverbal learning disorder and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. That makes him double-neurodiverse.

Simply having a neurodivergent son is not enough reason for him to be praised; indeed, many parents of neurodivergent children have been harmful to their children and peddled harmful ideas, including the idea that vaccines cause autism. Rather, what makes the Walz family’s story so reassuring is that they seem to want to help Gus live a good life rather than change who he is.

According to the Child Mind Institute, nonverbal learning disorder, or NVLD, affects nonverbal forms of learning like the ability to notice patterns or learn concepts, including visual and social patterns as well as concepts in language and math. Because of the similar traits, people with NVLD are often confused as being on the autism spectrum and vice versa. Most recently, comedian Chris Rock disclosed that he received a diagnosis after a friend initially thought he might be somewhere on the autism spectrum.....

The Walzes’ words and their embrace of their son may seem utterly unremarkable. But that’s the point. Loving your children, celebrating their gifts and embracing them fully ought to be unremarkable whether they’re neurodivergent or neurotypical. Neurodivergent people deserve parents who are dedicated to helping them thrive. They deserve family members who know that the way they love, interact and see the world, while different from their neurotypical counterparts, deserves the same respect. ......

At the same time, it is still a step forward that the Walz family doesn’t see Gus as deficient and has instead focused on what is possible for him, such as obtaining his driver’s license. Importantly, with the national profile they now have, the Walz family can serve as a model to show parents of children with developmental disabilities the joys that come with embracing, and not mending, their children

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Evil monsters from hell dalton99a Aug 2024 #1
+++++++++++++++++++ KPN Aug 2024 #57
17 yr old son is off limits period...evil asswipes Tribetime Aug 2024 #2
Both baron and Gus are 18. jimfields33 Aug 2024 #103
No, he is 17 right now.I looked it up Tribetime Aug 2024 #108
Ok thanks. I thought I read 2006. But must be 2007. jimfields33 Aug 2024 #110
He will be 18 in October Tribetime Aug 2024 #112
Cool. Thank you! jimfields33 Aug 2024 #115
What anxious parents of neurodivergent children can learn from Tim and Gwen Walz LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2024 #3
My grandson has Aspergers and my Tree Lady Aug 2024 #72
Following in Dear Leader's footsteps. tanyev Aug 2024 #4
Don and his MAGAbot followers are deplorable. oasis Aug 2024 #8
The real Reich monsters, pure evil. appalachiablue Aug 2024 #85
It's beautiful! Let the nasty Maga creeps burn in hell. Fla Dem Aug 2024 #5
Or "All Bottom"... Hugin Aug 2024 #6
Let those bottom-feeders go there... and see how it works out for them Blue Owl Aug 2024 #7
I sure Delphinus Aug 2024 #86
Nasty people. WTF is wrong with them? Ocelot II Aug 2024 #9
7th grade??? You give him too much credit.... AZ8theist Aug 2024 #30
Yet another self-own from these fools BeyondGeography Aug 2024 #10
Weird-ass nazi creeps go fuck yourselves. nt The Unmitigated Gall Aug 2024 #11
"Does Barron Trump cry? Nope." Rob H. Aug 2024 #12
If your dad is Donald Trump, you're not going to be normal. Ocelot II Aug 2024 #13
I always thought that Barron was on the spectrum. Katinfl Aug 2024 #47
Hillary was right. The Third Doctor Aug 2024 #14
Hillary was being generous. niyad Aug 2024 #56
Remember EnergizedLib Aug 2024 #15
yeah, the same Rush who was diddling little boys gopiscrap Aug 2024 #21
And mocked Michael J. Fox's Parkinson's EnergizedLib Aug 2024 #22
Same here! ShazzieB Aug 2024 #73
If memory serves. . . Collimator Aug 2024 #64
"Barron" is/was also one of TFG's aliases Ursus Rex Aug 2024 #92
I really hate this crap. Maga morons just can't help themselves ... Persondem Aug 2024 #16
Coulter has deleted her attack on Gus LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2024 #17
And yet, it persists on the Internet. MineralMan Aug 2024 #33
It certainly has been a long time since PatSeg Aug 2024 #35
I'm glad that harridan's quote has been preserved for all time. COL Mustard Aug 2024 #36
Ann C. should apologize, and apologize humbly. There are a significant number of handicapped persons SWBTATTReg Aug 2024 #43
Too late witch. KPN Aug 2024 #59
Please stop insulting practicing witches. ann coulter has NOTHING to do niyad Aug 2024 #81
Ann Coulter? Is she still alive? NBachers Aug 2024 #61
That Codifer Aug 2024 #88
She ought to Jilly_in_VA Aug 2024 #107
Fucking low life pieces of shit gopiscrap Aug 2024 #18
Perfect! Childless cat lady Ann Coulter attacks a son for emotionally expressing love for his father. 11 Bravo Aug 2024 #19
yo ho, yo ho, im a real man and i cry. so there too. AllaN01Bear Aug 2024 #20
John Boehner would like a word... maxrandb Aug 2024 #23
Literal Nazism Johnny2X2X Aug 2024 #24
It's because they are Nazis. Mr.Bill Aug 2024 #84
Fuck MAGA Basso8vb Aug 2024 #25
It's my understanding that Republicans can also give birth to neurodivergent children. TheRickles Aug 2024 #26
I find it interesting that when it is THEIR child PatSeg Aug 2024 #32
Conservative vs Liberal CaptainTruth Aug 2024 #40
Exactly PatSeg Aug 2024 #68
Yep. And I don't recall anyone here (or any Democrat for that matter) NYC Liberal Aug 2024 #106
So predictable Doc Sportello Aug 2024 #27
Do not risk your hand. I will let you use my purse. Believe me, it will do a LOT niyad Aug 2024 #109
Well I've never swung a purse Doc Sportello Aug 2024 #113
It will be my pleasure! niyad Aug 2024 #114
More about Gus's conditions IronLionZion Aug 2024 #28
despicable people barbtries Aug 2024 #29
This ass clown, Crispi, appears in his photo to be a real "pencil neck" pansy! Tarzanrock Aug 2024 #31
This is another example of the disparity of values. What I look up to and honor LiberalBrooke Aug 2024 #34
Orange Felon has raised kids who arent allowed to run charities in NY 70sEraVet Aug 2024 #37
Ugliness rules Jean Genie Aug 2024 #38
Forget learning disorder or any challenges Gus may have. This is fucking weird. Making fun of someone tulipsandroses Aug 2024 #39
Here's a news flash for MAGAT assholes - Mr.Bill Aug 2024 #41
Ann Coulter agalisgv Aug 2024 #42
All I can say is . . . colorado_ufo Aug 2024 #44
Small, weak, spineless men always bloviate the loudest and bully the most! Tarzanrock Aug 2024 #45
Every day, I take a little time out The Unmitigated Gall Aug 2024 #46
Barron didn't even attend Cheato's nomination. Mummy had to tell the press that he had Ziggysmom Aug 2024 #48
I'm sure Mike Crispi is the biggest pussy ouija Aug 2024 #49
Please stop with that sexist slur being used as a synonym for cowardice. niyad Aug 2024 #60
Thank you niyad! Coward is a much more appropriate word! Clouds Passing Aug 2024 #70
They have no problem w/ Kyle Rittenhouse's crocodile tears n/t RamblingRose Aug 2024 #50
Are any us surprised? ramapo Aug 2024 #51
As the mother of a special needs, 59 year old son, I find people like Crispi despicable. Less than human. appleannie1 Aug 2024 #52
.... progressoid Aug 2024 #65
Mom of two twentysomething kids on the spectrum. I'm with you. AngryOldDem Aug 2024 #100
Excerpt of Mike Crispi's bio from the Club For Growth site: LudwigPastorius Aug 2024 #53
At least Walz never fucked his daughter or lusted after her every second of the day.. onecaliberal Aug 2024 #54
God, MAGA are such utter pieces of dog shit. Initech Aug 2024 #55
I think the jury is out Mblaze Aug 2024 #58
Hmmm Lotusflower70 Aug 2024 #62
As painful as it is to read garbage from assholes like these people, hadEnuf Aug 2024 #63
GUS STRONG! Little playground bullies at it again. Crispi's hate movement is going to be a crispy burnt toast soon. Clouds Passing Aug 2024 #66
May they get everything they have coming to them! SheltieLover Aug 2024 #67
predicable iemanja Aug 2024 #69
I can't think of a single attack on Barron TlalocW Aug 2024 #71
Is English his second language Or did he drop out of school in the 3rd grade? bif Aug 2024 #74
I figured this was coming. gordianot Aug 2024 #75
Of course they are. evolves Aug 2024 #76
Baron Trump is a sociopathic monster . . . Richard D Aug 2024 #77
Assholes ChuckInMO Aug 2024 #78
This message was self-deleted by its author Island Blue Aug 2024 #79
Did these boneheads delete their tweets? Catherine Vincent Aug 2024 #80
Coulter did. Don't know about Crispi. onenote Aug 2024 #91
There will be hell to pay for this. Freethinker65 Aug 2024 #82
Hey, mikey, how in the F'n HELL would YOU know whether spawn five cries, niyad Aug 2024 #83
When I saw Gus cry I knew this would happen Such mucifer Aug 2024 #87
Barron Trump doesn't cry piddyprints Aug 2024 #89
Maga, trump, republicans have no bottom samsingh Aug 2024 #90
It shows how desperate they are to make fun of something so wholesome Rob H. Aug 2024 #93
If I were Mike Crispi johnnyfins Aug 2024 #94
oh. And I hope they find him and have a little johnnyfins Aug 2024 #95
Self-delete AngryOldDem Aug 2024 #96
I knew as soon as I saw the pic that the maggots would be all over it. AngryOldDem Aug 2024 #97
Whoa Mike Crispi is a GD fuckwad. We knew this was coming... Does Cha Aug 2024 #98
I saw where he later deleted it after being called out on it. AngryOldDem Aug 2024 #99
Thank you for telling me that. Cha Aug 2024 #102
Crispi and Coulter show how the Right folds when it gets backlash... AngryOldDem Aug 2024 #104
Kind of looks like their hero Rittenhouse in court. nt doc03 Aug 2024 #101
- - - - - "There is no Bottom" - - - - - Says it all. CoopersDad Aug 2024 #105
How odd Zoomie1986 Aug 2024 #111
This is all they got kwolf68 Aug 2024 #116
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