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madamesilverspurs

(16,516 posts)
30. Define "help".
Thu Aug 22, 2024, 02:19 PM
Aug 2024

In my neighborhood, Dems are the minority party, behind independents and GOPers respectively. As it happens, my apartment complex doesn't allow yard signs or window signs. But they have no say over how I choose to decorate my vehicle.

So, when I got my minivan with its many windows, I viewed it as a rolling yard with lots of space for stickers and signs. I wasn't really a surprise when, just days after my first sticker went up, the van was keyed along both sides. If that action was intended to silence my efforts, it didn't work; if anything, it let me know that I was on the right track.

I can't tell you how many parking lot conversations have happened as a direct result of those stickers and signs, but it has been about half-and-half pro or con. In a couple of instances there was more than a hint of belligerence, I've been called some interesting names, been accused of everything up to instigating a second crucifixion. That said, there have been the uplifting moments that allay any lurking doubts. There was the woman who was hurrying into the store and saw my car, stopped, then came over and said that she and her husband were still unpacking from moving here; they were wondering if there were any Democrats in town and she was delighted to meet one. We chatted for a bit, I welcomed her to town, and gave her directions to our local Dems office. That felt good.

The memory that always makes me smile happened in that same Safeway parking lot. A woman walked by looking at her shopping list. She glanced up, stopped, did a double-take, then broke into a huge smile, gave two thumbs-up, then turned and literally danced the rest of the way to the store entrance, where she stopped and waved before going inside.

For me, at the very least, there's something to be said for letting others know they are not alone.

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4 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

They help more in down ballot races. Funtatlaguy Aug 2024 #1
Completely agree DeepWinter Aug 2024 #8
Sure, ask any paint and body shop if they help them. rzemanfl Aug 2024 #2
Advertising doesn't work... ret5hd Aug 2024 #3
I put up yard signs Keepthesoulalive Aug 2024 #4
My wife has hillary, biden, and harris stickers on her car... getagrip_already Aug 2024 #5
I wouldn't put any on my car Jerry2144 Aug 2024 #6
Yes they help me. when I see the magat sign I move away cutroot Aug 2024 #7
If I'm not sure which local candidates are the most liberal, Greybnk48 Aug 2024 #9
Well, buying them funnels money to the candidates... Wounded Bear Aug 2024 #10
It's depressing how intimidated we are Bobstandard Aug 2024 #11
I s'pose it comes down to 'help what?' Torchlight Aug 2024 #12
In Purple States, all I think it does is create agitation between neighbors. PeaceWave Aug 2024 #13
I had a neighbor in Georgia... appmanga Aug 2024 #24
Small Businesses Old Curler Aug 2024 #14
A friend who won a congressional seat kept telling me rurallib Aug 2024 #15
I live in a mostly blue area on a busy corner & the first time I ever put a yard sign out was 2004 for John Kerry. CrispyQ Aug 2024 #16
I don't think I've ever been consciously swayed by a sign or bumper sticker. XorXor Aug 2024 #17
Good question, and my take is this: hawkeye21 Aug 2024 #18
I appreciate your thoughtful post and analysis. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2024 #19
It's frustrating that most of our votes don't moonscape Aug 2024 #23
They help candidates for more minor offices. MineralMan Aug 2024 #20
I would put judges' signs next to my Obama signs blm Aug 2024 #21
Excellent! I'd not considered that. Great thinking! Oopsie Daisy Aug 2024 #22
No but a lack of them can hurt ibegurpard Aug 2024 #25
Their presence indicates enthusiasm. They might not change minds, Ocelot II Aug 2024 #26
They are rare in El Paso except for local elections. Scruffy1 Aug 2024 #27
look up Collier-vs-Tacoma 1993 Washington Supreme Court gopiscrap Aug 2024 #28
They do. Voltaire2 Aug 2024 #29
Yes... plus being targeted for road rage, brake-checking, aggressive following, etc. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2024 #31
Define "help". madamesilverspurs Aug 2024 #30
Very insightful. Thanks for the detailed and thoughtful reply. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2024 #32
led to me sending super repuke neighbor some actual facts Kali Aug 2024 #33
I'd like to have you as my shameless kooky hippie neighbor. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2024 #34
Shouldn't matter but Nasty Bigerhalf Aug 2024 #35
If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. LeftInTX Aug 2024 #36
It depends. lees1975 Aug 2024 #37
It doesn't matter. I'm putting up my "Veterans for Harris" whether it helps or not. TomSlick Aug 2024 #38
I'd like to think that signs like this could have an effect Persondem Aug 2024 #39
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