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Coventina

(29,858 posts)
7. First of all, please know that you are not alone.
Wed Oct 30, 2024, 06:30 PM
Oct 2024

The feeling of betrayal you have is very valid and MANY of your sisters are experiencing it along with you.

Other than that, I don't have a lot of good advice.

My mother died in 2003, but my dad has morphed from a Trump hater to a Trump lover.
(Yes, Trump is gaining support, regardless of what you might be told. Frightening and disturbing on so many levels).

It hurts like HELL to be a rape survivor, or abuse survivor, or other person who has been personally affected by the behaviors this despicable band of abuses and users espouse.

When those you once felt closest to cheer on the rapist, it hurts very deeply.

I'm right there with you.



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You didn't go wrong. They did. Aristus Oct 2024 #1
Did you tell her to Ontheboundry Oct 2024 #4
Yeah. She's a sexual assault survivor, and her parents are voting for a rapist. Aristus Oct 2024 #8
That's the OP's decision soandso Oct 2024 #16
Of course it's her choice. Which I clearly recognized in my post. Aristus Oct 2024 #19
That's all very nice soandso Oct 2024 #20
Nice job 👍 NT Tickle Oct 2024 #21
I don't need to imagine it; she spelled it out for us. Aristus Oct 2024 #22
Sighhhh. Perhaps you could read that first response again, since you seem to have niyad Oct 2024 #27
I did read it soandso Oct 2024 #33
Do keep trying. niyad Oct 2024 #36
What's your point? soandso Oct 2024 #39
Re-read your own post, and then ask yourself, what is YOUR point?? Jack Valentino Oct 2024 #40
She/he offered options, my reading of it. Dan Oct 2024 #23
It's the same blind allegiance as with predator priests. BattleRow Oct 2024 #32
That must hurt like hell. 3catwoman3 Oct 2024 #2
I am so sorry BlueKota Oct 2024 #3
" It's not the party of Lincoln and Ike anymore and hasn't been for decades." Different Drummer Oct 2024 #5
Have you been able to tell them why them choosing a sexual assaulter/rapist is so painful for you? I sure understand if MLAA Oct 2024 #6
First of all, please know that you are not alone. Coventina Oct 2024 #7
Thank you... TSExile Oct 2024 #41
The Republican cult is all about blame. Dems are all about service and responsibility to self and others. usonian Oct 2024 #9
Think of it this way soandso Oct 2024 #10
Smother them with kindness. usonian Oct 2024 #11
Yeah,Raygun could do no wrong in my father in laws eyes. Conjuay Oct 2024 #24
Yeah - soldierant Oct 2024 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Oct 2024 #12
What is the greater good? The Grand Illuminist Oct 2024 #13
You did not go wrong. They have a right to vote as they wish and all you can do is advise them. totodeinhere Oct 2024 #14
even before dementia is diagnosed, flexibility of thinking declines with age and poor health harumph Oct 2024 #15
You didn't go wrong. bdamomma Oct 2024 #17
Sad. They sound like they're full of every other...ism in the book. In regards to VP Harris... brush Oct 2024 #18
You didnt. Joinfortmill Oct 2024 #25
For me, I just have some relationships where politics is set aside... Mark.b2 Oct 2024 #26
re: "For some reason I cannot understand, neither parent likes them." thesquanderer Oct 2024 #28
There are a lot of family maga's that disappoint me and frankly I no longer trust them nor care to be around them yaesu Oct 2024 #29
TSExile... you didn't go wrong... slightlv Oct 2024 #31
Luckily, my parents aren't like that. mdbl Oct 2024 #34
did you remind your mom what she said in 2022, that she'd never vote for trump again? orleans Oct 2024 #35
I'm going to guess this is a result of hours and hours of propaganda being pumped right into Liberal In Texas Oct 2024 #37
Here's what's really weird. TSExile Oct 2024 #38
This message was self-deleted by its author jfz9580m Oct 2024 #43
May I ask what state they are in? Polybius Oct 2024 #42
No, thankfully. TSExile Oct 2024 #46
You didn't go wrong. They didn't go wrong. DeepWinter Oct 2024 #44
Have you seen the documentary 'The Brainwashing of my Dad'? mackdaddy Oct 2024 #45
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