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In reply to the discussion: Diners Called 'Fat Girls' On Check [View all]quakerboy
(14,808 posts)I bet money when you didn't like a customer, it effected your actions. Possibly the expression on your face. You may think that you didnt change a thing, but unless you are an amazing actor, they knew and it effected their experience.
And the act of writing it down indicates that this was not a carefully held internal secret for the person serving them. Which makes it even more likely than with your average person who sees a fat person and things ill of them that this servers actions were effected by it.
In short, neither of us were there. Neither of us can prove that this server did or did not alter his/her actions toward these patrons based on their stature. But I can tell you which is more likely to be correct, based on real world experience.
That said, I don't care to speak with you any more. I find you unnecessarily unpleasant, and the need to try and make your post mildly personally insulting rather than focusing on the argument between us does not make me inclined to believe any positive outcome will come of further discussion with you on this matter. So, Have a good day, a good winter season, and best of luck.