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Sympthsical

(11,184 posts)
41. Depends on what people focus on
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 10:46 AM
Nov 2024

If people read nothing but worst case scenarios all day every day, they're going to have a certain perception.

I'd rather work. It's as simple as that. When the pandemic hit, I started making choices. I didn't like how things were going, I didn't like that I felt like I wasn't contributing, so I went back to school. Earned degrees 25 years after getting my first one. Now I've been doing nursing clinicals this fall.

I made a choice that I saw hardship, that I saw something I could do to help - something where when I retire or die, I can look back on my life and say I contributed, that I was a net plus for humanity - and I got to work.

I see this situation as similar.

People make their choices. I don't choose despair. First off, it's not even vaguely interesting. It's indulgent. And if that sounds callous, so be it. But I see so many people feeding off each other's fear and anxiety, reinforcing it, strengthening it. It creates a loop of concentrated feelings of helplessness and hopelessness.

I don't want to buy into that. Pass. If others do, that's a choice they're making. I can't make anyone choose otherwise. But is very much a choice, make no mistake.

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Same here. maveric Nov 2024 #1
Good advice geekboy009 Nov 2024 #3
I gave up on FL, my native sate after 2002 and left permanently JCMach1 Nov 2024 #2
My goal now is to make Florida a swing state again geekboy009 Nov 2024 #4
Not Going To Happen For Several Decades SoCalDavidS Nov 2024 #26
You'll be at it for a long time. Mariana Nov 2024 #32
Where did you go? I've thought about leaving but where to go and will a blue state stay blue? Deuxcents Nov 2024 #6
Please don't leave geekboy009 Nov 2024 #10
Yeah..my family has been here for over a hundred years now..still have lots of family here Deuxcents Nov 2024 #11
When you think about it, trump did three points worse than desantis geekboy009 Nov 2024 #13
🤗 Deuxcents Nov 2024 #16
Dubai in 2003... Then moved to TX in JCMach1 Nov 2024 #12
How do we fix that image? geekboy009 Nov 2024 #14
My last involvement with the party was 2003 JCMach1 Nov 2024 #21
Yeah, but Texas? My son lives near San Antonio Deuxcents Nov 2024 #19
Nikki Fried contact info.. Deuxcents Nov 2024 #5
Thank you geekboy009 Nov 2024 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Nov 2024 #7
Thank you geekboy009 Nov 2024 #9
Your SS won't be cut. WarGamer Nov 2024 #15
Elon Musk is proposing a two trillion cut to the federal budget geekboy009 Nov 2024 #18
SS cuts are not on the table for current recipients. WarGamer Nov 2024 #20
Musk isn't a member of Congress Kaleva Nov 2024 #25
My sister has used the same independent agent for years for Medicare advice and enrollment. She has an Advantage Plan. hamsterjill Nov 2024 #28
I'm on SSDI XanaDUer2 Nov 2024 #43
Don't worry. Most people declaring their intent on social media won't leave Sympthsical Nov 2024 #17
Well what if the country you lived in turned into an authoritarian country geekboy009 Nov 2024 #22
To be honest Sympthsical Nov 2024 #23
I mean this country just elected an authoritarian for a second time geekboy009 Nov 2024 #24
Festival of anxiety? Cirsium Nov 2024 #31
Depends on what people focus on Sympthsical Nov 2024 #41
This is it Cirsium Nov 2024 #47
A lot of my ancestors left their countries of origin. Mariana Nov 2024 #33
So did mine Sympthsical Nov 2024 #40
Well i don't blame folks wanting to leave geekboy009 Nov 2024 #42
Not every immigrant to the US was starving. Mariana Nov 2024 #48
That depends Cirsium Nov 2024 #29
To anybody wanting to leave this country EnergizedLib Nov 2024 #27
I would never abandon my country to fascists Skittles Nov 2024 #30
That really isn't fair to accuse people choie Nov 2024 #34
and cutting and running solves that Skittles Nov 2024 #49
So it has ever been. Mariana Nov 2024 #35
This message was self-deleted by its author morillon Nov 2024 #36
Not leaving DemonGoddess Nov 2024 #37
I agree geekboy009 Nov 2024 #38
Most people cannot afford to leave. MineralMan Nov 2024 #39
Very true geekboy009 Nov 2024 #44
I'm staying and making a big GenThePerservering Nov 2024 #45
I foolheartedly agree; geekboy009 Nov 2024 #46
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