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soldierant

(9,368 posts)
29. I'm 79 and mobility challenged.
Sun Nov 10, 2024, 03:55 PM
Nov 2024

My closest blood relative are a first cousin and three second cousins. None of then is physically close to - we are several states away. Two of them have children and grandchildren, none of whom I have met. My husband of 40 years (who is 81) is incarcerated on in indefinite sentence. He is eligible for parole, but between TBI whan he was 21 andthe intervening years having led to benogn dementia, there is zero chance of his convincing a parole board that he should get parole. He is also mobility challenged and there is no way that I could give him the kind of care he is getting where he is, and he could not help me care for myself either. So there's not a whole lot I can do in te resistance anyway.

But I thnk I shold be able to, for instance, follow the massive lawsuits that Democrativ governors and attorneys general as promising to bring every time he tries anythng funny. And in other ways I can support people who are doing things that matter, even if the support may not be financial. It's very little. But I would not be taking care of myself if I weren't thinkingof others. I'm just not made that way. Probably no one here is made that way, and those of you who have real live people in your life to care about and for , by all means go for that.

I've never been one for the MSM - at least not since Dan Rather was framed. There are a couple of hosts on MSNBC I trust, but even those I only watch sparingly. I get most of my news now from Sobstack - Heather Cox Richardson, Robert Reich, Joyce Vance, Mary Trump, RObert Hubbell, WOnkette, Talking Points Memo, Margaret Atwood (when she writes, which is getting more seldom.) It may not always be pretty, but at least it's factual. And, yes, I come here. And will continue to do so, and also to be selective.

I don't think he cankill me in four years, but it really isn't the four years I', worried about. It's how long after that he will have put is in hock for.

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Good advice. I don't want that SOB living rent-free in my head any longer. Ocelot II Nov 2024 #1
This is a very good point johnnyfins Nov 2024 #12
Absolutely Glaisne Nov 2024 #34
Conecomics is going to implode on itself Envirogal Nov 2024 #54
Very well said, my dear LuckyCharms . . . CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2024 #2
I have had the same thoughts. Irish_Dem Nov 2024 #3
My son said the same. yardwork Nov 2024 #4
This!! Absolutely!! johnnyfins Nov 2024 #14
Midastouch network will fill you in on everything. Bluethroughu Nov 2024 #16
Totally with this NJCher Nov 2024 #64
The Washington Post is unreadable since the election. yardwork Nov 2024 #27
Wish all the decent staff of all the newspapers thinkingagain Nov 2024 #30
FOX and other bdamomma Nov 2024 #49
IMO, you have a very wise son! slightlv Nov 2024 #53
You are tired, and it's a good time to rest. yardwork Nov 2024 #57
Good advice Easterncedar Nov 2024 #5
I just attended my first UU service today, too. OnionPatch Nov 2024 #32
Yes, no both siderism needed Easterncedar Nov 2024 #35
UU mamacita75 Nov 2024 #41
Unitarian Universalist Easterncedar Nov 2024 #42
I've watched their sermons online OnionPatch Nov 2024 #56
I had already come to that same conclusion for my life. llmart Nov 2024 #6
The time I have left is too important to me. I will try to survive and stay sane and help my friends and neighbors. NoSheep Nov 2024 #60
Wise. LoisB Nov 2024 #7
Party at LuckyCharms, what can I bring? Hotler Nov 2024 #8
Your wife is correct. Elessar Zappa Nov 2024 #9
Spody Odie at Lucky Charms. Prairie_Seagull Nov 2024 #10
Yes. Fascists want the population afraid, confused, fearful. Qutzupalotl Nov 2024 #11
I would rec this a hundred times. Easterncedar Nov 2024 #36
"...pre-crisis anxiety is useless and even counterproductive." OldBaldy1701E Nov 2024 #63
Stay with us and keep resisting and strategizing. Qutzupalotl Nov 2024 #70
I'll be 77 this month mountain grammy Nov 2024 #13
lotsa parallels to "The Stand." Stay away from Walking Dude and Trashcan Man.. Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #22
Well Said. Same thoughts here....... joanbarnes Nov 2024 #15
That's where I'm at too. I am genuinely "concerned" that he wants to collapse our economy. He stated it publicly. Evolve Dammit Nov 2024 #23
President Jimmy Carter is a good example for all of us FakeNoose Nov 2024 #17
Husband and I, 50 years old. Bluethroughu Nov 2024 #18
My son said something similar to me. Bumbles Nov 2024 #19
Love keepthemhonestO Nov 2024 #20
I posted along these lines over in the history forum, thinking of John Waldron. NNadir Nov 2024 #21
Was speaking with one of my neighbors this morning malaise Nov 2024 #24
I'm right at my "use by date". My only goal now is multigraincracker Nov 2024 #25
Don't give that Dump name or face any clicks. Clouds Passing Nov 2024 #26
Enjoy "the good old days" while we're still kicking. rubbersole Nov 2024 #28
I'm 79 and mobility challenged. soldierant Nov 2024 #29
I am Linda ladeewolf Nov 2024 #31
it won't matter what the backlash is 4catsmom Nov 2024 #33
My coping nechanism is to mute the news when they show him. Beacool Nov 2024 #37
What to do about DownriverDem Nov 2024 #38
When I used to take my own advice, I would exercize to the point of exhaustion to calm myself. LuckyCharms Nov 2024 #45
I always resort to steamed vegetables dickthegrouch Nov 2024 #69
I've stopped watching ALL political shows for my own sanity FirstLight Nov 2024 #39
Yes, it is both mamacita75 Nov 2024 #40
I'm Rude By Nature, But . . Schlocko Nov 2024 #43
Good way to be, Schlocko. Welcome to DU! LuckyCharms Nov 2024 #44
Happy to be here! Schlocko Nov 2024 #52
There is a higher chance Trump will die. iemanja Nov 2024 #46
That F***in A*****e ironman99 Nov 2024 #47
Well said, I feel the same Saoirse9 Nov 2024 #48
The soul Lulu KC Nov 2024 #50
Thank you LuckyCharms for your post. c-rational Nov 2024 #51
Wish I could rec this more than once! Docreed2003 Nov 2024 #55
I just don't see how Dump can live much longer; peacebuzzard Nov 2024 #58
I know I posted this once already johnnyfins Nov 2024 #59
that's my partner's plan: keep our heads down and get through it paulkienitz Nov 2024 #61
I really appreciate this post. MarvinGardens Nov 2024 #62
Pretty much what I been thinking. Not much we can do Emile Nov 2024 #65
kick BlueWaveNeverEnd Nov 2024 #66
Excellent advice Dog Walkers Rock Nov 2024 #67
How has this advice helped you? marble falls Nov 2024 #71
Good advice. CrispyQ Nov 2024 #68
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