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56. Thank god that woman was not my mom

Reply to obamanut2012 (Original post)

Fri Dec 14, 2012, 07:07 AM

Dec 2012

No kid is going to enjoy anything if you pause to explain to them or need a lengthy discussion about every offhand remark that could be offensive.

Adventures in Babysitting is PG-13. If you believe your 13-year-old is traumatized by a boob or a swear word, then either you've sheltered them far too much or you're in complete denial (either they've seen worse at their friends' houses or your own and you just don't know it). Homo? Your son has heard much worse at school.

Stuff like this is similar to viruses. Kids shouldn't be overexposed, but some exposure is necessary to build up the immune system.

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When Your Favorite Childhood Films Are a Little More Homophobic Than You Remembered [View all] obamanut2012 Dec 2012 OP

Yeah. I showed my kids an old Sam Kinison stand up. MrSlayer Dec 2012 #1

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lol obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #17

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OMG obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #31

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Seriously obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #18

or marlon brando as an "asian" bedazzled Dec 2012 #64

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Sixteen Candles. *wince* Starry Messenger Dec 2012 #9

Oh God obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #19

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Not homophobia, the racism. Starry Messenger Dec 2012 #81

Uncanny. I don't remember it. ( That says something right there, I guess.) Smarmie Doofus Dec 2012 #88

Not my favorite childhood films... Whovian Dec 2012 #10

This message was self-deleted by its author devilgrrl Dec 2012 #11

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oh jeeeeez... that's a terrible movie! DonRedwood Dec 2012 #21

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Wow deutsey Dec 2012 #37

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Thanks. Wow. n/t Smarmie Doofus Dec 2012 #77

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