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In reply to the discussion: I am Adam Lanza's Mother-It's time to talk about Mental Illness [View all]1monster
(11,045 posts)29. These two sentences say it all. And it is true. Any help there might be out there
This problem is too big for me to handle on my own. Sometimes there are no good options. So you just pray for grace and trust that in hindsight, it will all make sense.
to deal with the problems is designed to either bankrupt the family or be denied on one pretext or another by the government programs that were supposed to help.
And not all cases are with raging, violent, uncontrollable kids. Some of the kids are very tractable, but cannont be left alone for even three minutes because they are not able to understand.
And then, when the inevitable happens, and the kid breaks a law, all those psychological reports and incidents only serve to convince the prosecutors that the only answer is a very long prison term, far longer than someone who doesn't have such a psychological history in with psycho and sociopaths...
Been there, paid huge amounts of money for help that always had an agenda, begged, literally begged for any kind of help and/or advice from "experts" government and private sector.
At the end of the day, had any ONE of the myriad of phychiatrists, psychologists, and clinical therapists done their job right, the person in my care could have been hleped and needed services would have been available. Sadly, this did not happen.
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I found it a desperate call for help. And I understand how she feels, even though in my case
1monster
Dec 2012
#34
Whatever. I'd say you were just another metal health worker with an agenda who
1monster
Dec 2012
#42
let me explain what is wrong with this piece, and by extension the woman who wrote
cali
Dec 2012
#16
I don't think so. Taking care of someone with mental health problems is extremely difficult:
Dash87
Dec 2012
#7
I'm full aware of the challenges. I think it's very telling that this mother is exploiting- yes
cali
Dec 2012
#9
Thanks. Heart breaking piece. Probably lots of parents in similar positions. Our health care
geckosfeet
Dec 2012
#24
OK well now there is more info to understand the title claim....thank you for fixing
lunasun
Dec 2012
#45
These two sentences say it all. And it is true. Any help there might be out there
1monster
Dec 2012
#29
My heart goes out to you and this makes me very glad that my mentally ill brother has not turned
jwirr
Dec 2012
#37
As I see it, the mother has two choices for her son. Jail or her own death.
LiberalEsto
Dec 2012
#41