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MurrayDelph

(5,752 posts)
23. I warned my wife that I was about to become flame bait
Sun Dec 16, 2012, 02:53 PM
Dec 2012

One of the problems with any group of people, no matter how good they are at heart, is that they have certain blind spots.

For the record, I believe those who are currently flaming me are well-meaning people.

Also, for the record, I did not say that nothing should ever be done about these type of bullies (i.e. the loudmouth assholes at the table adjacent to the OP) ever. Nor did I say that nothing should be done to combat their fetish towards guns.

What I did say was "choose your battleground wisely."

The OP was lucky that these loudmouths were just loudmouths. In the current climate, I am not sure how wise it is to directly confront a gun nut, when emotions are high on both sides. It is, however time to confront our elected officials to get off their collective fat asses and do something (I have no idea what; I'm just a former kindergarten teacher turned former restauranteur).


Also, for the record, I have a personal disdain for guns that goes back over twenty years, when a gang member walked onto my niece's high school and shot a rival gang member who was standing close-enough to my niece that she saw the flash and the bullet. Fortunately, back then, they only shot at the person they had the grudge over and not all the bystanders.

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these people make me sick maryellen99 Dec 2012 #1
Well done, I hope they got a bad case of indigestion. lpbk2713 Dec 2012 #2
The right wing's sympathy for the murdered kids lasted a long time, huh? meanit Dec 2012 #3
Why do these fools always yell? Bluzmann57 Dec 2012 #4
They're bullies. R. Daneel Olivaw Dec 2012 #5
my response -- elehhhhna Dec 2012 #6
That would be a great response. nt avebury Dec 2012 #13
One of the most succinct statements I've heard yet re: guns. WTG! Fla Dem Dec 2012 #7
As a recently-former restauranteur in Oregon MurrayDelph Dec 2012 #8
That is the most sorry assed excuse I've ever seen for trying to Skidmore Dec 2012 #11
and thank you for showing that MurrayDelph Dec 2012 #12
Don't waste your to much of your time on this.... PavePusher Dec 2012 #18
I warned my wife that I was about to become flame bait MurrayDelph Dec 2012 #23
I understand, but I think your insinuated broad-brush of a demographic.... PavePusher Dec 2012 #33
Where would be better? Paulie Dec 2012 #34
+1 skidmore ... zbdent Dec 2012 #22
When a server makes as little as $3.00 an hour xmas74 Dec 2012 #41
Yes, let's never confront assholes, ever, about anything, because it might cost someone money hatrack Dec 2012 #15
And you should remember the saying avebury Dec 2012 #16
oh ffs what a load of crap elehhhhna Dec 2012 #25
The OP's reply was one of FACTS.. It was not his fault that Cha Dec 2012 #26
It goes both ways Generic Other Dec 2012 #27
He didn't tell them to leave, did he? George II Dec 2012 #32
And how was the OP to know the people she was talking to were going to walk out? Fumesucker Dec 2012 #37
Way to go Moral Compass Dec 2012 #9
Good for you. Wish I could have seen that. onecent Dec 2012 #10
Things are pretty screwed up in Medford too FightingIrish Dec 2012 #14
Doesn't sound like the type to cancel a meal because of another opinion. WinkyDink Dec 2012 #17
NRA has hijacked this country lobodons Dec 2012 #19
Sounds like they are being propagandized. They seem to have their RW impeach Obama points Cleita Dec 2012 #20
Bill Maher was right - the gun industry should be thanking Obama. Initech Dec 2012 #35
I am SO glad I'm not a Republican anymore derby378 Dec 2012 #21
couldn't get into my brothers head if I wanted PatrynXX Dec 2012 #24
tell your bro we need compulsory prayer at malls and movie theatres, too elehhhhna Dec 2012 #28
because they took god out of the schools.... ejpoeta Dec 2012 #30
Don't give up. Cleita Dec 2012 #43
You're too nice... ReRe Dec 2012 #29
20 children were brutally murdered on Friday and all that jackass cares about is his precious gun??? Initech Dec 2012 #31
+ Infinity Octafish Dec 2012 #36
One thing I really hope people take away from this... Initech Dec 2012 #40
Fucking idiots JEB Dec 2012 #38
Maybe they'll starve to death CountAllVotes Dec 2012 #39
Good deal shenmue Dec 2012 #42
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