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marble falls

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Fri Feb 14, 2025, 02:02 PM Feb 14

My dad was buried today, he passed last Friday ... [View all]

... I had started to drive to Tempe Monday last week, but because I could not get a fuel pump for my Ford because Ford will not supply parts for a 10 year or older vehicle, the NAPA part I was forced to use partially collapsed the pump siphon and developed a hole, i was stranded on I-10 about 35 miles west of El Paso and over 450 miles from Marble Falls. For three day days before a friend drove out and hauled me back. His fee? Gas and a loaf of homemade bread.

I am the oldest of the oldest on both parent's lines and my step-parent's lines.

I missed my dad's funeral due to the car and some illness.

My Dad was a wonderful person, well loved and respected. His ending was not surprise and not due to anything past time. He went quickly and peacefully. He didn't pass in senior care, my brothers had him at brought to his home the day before and he passed in the night with family around him.

He changed my life. He taught me empathy the right time in my life.

We as a family are more glad of knowing him than sad he's passed: he'll never be gone.

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Nevilledog Feb 14 #1
Thank you. he was one of the good ones. Whole bunch of family history questions I thought there was still time to ask. marble falls Feb 14 #7
This past Christmas... rasputin1952 Feb 15 #119
Ahhhhh, family history ... marble falls Feb 15 #121
I got involved in the VA's Million Veteran Program... rasputin1952 Feb 16 #122
My test was through a Mormon associated company, I do trust the Mormons. But you and I are ... marble falls Feb 16 #124
I feel I should tell you that... rasputin1952 Feb 17 #125
Basically to offer anyone who ever lived and is alive the oportunity to join the LDS. marble falls Feb 17 #130
The cilantro thing is quie interesting, I think. electric_blue68 Feb 17 #128
So sorry marble falls! bronxiteforever Feb 14 #2
He was force for good. He walked his talk. marble falls Feb 14 #5
Oh my goodness. Alliepoo Feb 14 #3
Deepest sympathies to you and your family. Duncan Grant Feb 14 #4
Sorry for your loss Tree Lady Feb 14 #6
I am so sorry for your loss. It sounds as if he was as wonderful a human as he was a Dad. LoisB Feb 14 #8
He was indeed. He started a day care center in Phoenix in the late seventies that is still running ... marble falls Feb 14 #10
I'm so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Feb 14 #9
That car spent at least six months last year waiting lots for parts. I am so angry with Ford. marble falls Feb 14 #13
I can't blame you. greatauntoftriplets Feb 14 #14
So sorry for your loss Lifeafter70 Feb 14 #11
We're scattered, but the ceremonies were today, We're going back next or the month after. marble falls Feb 14 #53
I'm so sorry for your loss. Every sympathy, Alice B. Feb 14 #12
May his memory forever be a blessing Sundance1220 Feb 14 #15
Sounds like we both had great fathers. May they both rest in peace. surfered Feb 14 #16
I am so very very sorry for your great loss irisblue Feb 14 #17
Please do not be sorry, he left nothing smiles and darn few regrets. marble falls Feb 14 #54
Sending love to you. Hope22 Feb 14 #18
"" AllaN01Bear Feb 14 #19
I feel ForgedCrank Feb 14 #20
He was 94, his B-day was Feb 3. He failed very quickly, just a few weeks. The thing to keep in one's heart is: ... marble falls Feb 14 #42
You have my sympathy for your loss Wicked Blue Feb 14 #21
He was good person. You'd have appreciated his sense of justice. marble falls Feb 14 #40
Deepest sympathy my friend malaise Feb 14 #22
He had a rare sense of fair play that included anyone and everyone. marble falls Feb 14 #41
Just like you malaise Feb 14 #84
So sorry for the loss of your father senseandsensibility Feb 14 #23
Well, this has brought it home to me: at 74, solo road trips are no longer on the menu ... marble falls Feb 14 #43
My very best wishes to you and yours, marble falls. Paladin Feb 14 #24
I am sorry for your loss, marble falls. 💙 sheshe2 Feb 14 #25
"There is a season." It's part of the deal. marble falls Feb 14 #44
So sorry you lost your dad! My condolences. Ocelot II Feb 14 #26
He put his time in, was very productive and now he rests. It's all good news. marble falls Feb 14 #45
I'm so sorry! cate94 Feb 14 #27
Please don't be sad, he was tired and it was his time after 94 years. marble falls Feb 14 #47
I'm so sorry for your loss but happy to hear what a lively person he was. Lonestarblue Feb 14 #28
We have peace and a million stories ... marble falls Feb 14 #51
I'm so sorry for your loss and difficult experience. yardwork Feb 14 #29
Very fortunate, this is my step-dad and he took in three kids with my mom and had three more. He was ... marble falls Feb 14 #61
He sounds like a remarkable person. yardwork Feb 14 #76
I am sorry for your loss. murielm99 Feb 14 #30
Just passed this along to my mechanic, thanks! marble falls Feb 14 #64
I am so sorry for your loss. CareyOn Feb 14 #31
I am so very sorry for your loss. May all your memories of him be good ones... Hekate Feb 14 #32
My deepest sympathy on your loss. kimbutgar Feb 14 #33
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Can only imagine the frustration with all the other stuff. Glad you have fond memories Evolve Dammit Feb 14 #34
Sorry for your loss. You father sounds like a wonderful person. JohnSJ Feb 14 #35
I am so sorry marble falls. May your dad's memory be a blessing to you. debm55 Feb 14 #36
Thanks, Deb! marble falls Feb 14 #60
My sympathies. Very glad to hear he was good man, and will be cherished. electric_blue68 Feb 14 #37
I'm sorry for your loss Bettie Feb 14 #38
I'm so sorry LivingInASociety Feb 14 #39
Condolences for your loss and sad you ended up stranded. love_katz Feb 14 #46
So sorry for you. Sweet dads are gems to be treasured. allegorical oracle Feb 14 #48
oh hell, I am pretty close, could have given you a hand./ride/something Kali Feb 14 #49
It's shame that the times have changed so much that we have to be careful about actions we'd have done ... marble falls Feb 14 #58
So sorry for your loss... ultralite001 Feb 14 #50
What a lovely tribute to your father. Irish_Dem Feb 14 #52
I smile everytime I say something and I realized I heard it before, when he said it to me first. marble falls Feb 14 #56
See, he is always with you. Irish_Dem Feb 14 #70
This message was self-deleted by its author Irish_Dem Feb 14 #67
Peace and condolences for your loss. Dulcinea Feb 14 #55
So sorry for your loss marble falls. Sorry also that you had the problems with your car and could not be there. That KPN Feb 14 #57
Sorry you missed the funeral Figarosmom Feb 14 #59
My dad started seeing/speaking to my late mother a few months ago. I knew was starting to transition to the next plane. marble falls Feb 14 #62
I'm sorry for your loss mercuryblues Feb 14 #63
I'm sorry about your dad and so sorry that you missed LeftInTX Feb 14 #65
My sincere condolences to you and your family. Basso8vb Feb 14 #66
Deep condolences. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Feb 14 #68
Deepest Condolences, MF SheltieLover Feb 14 #69
Condolences uponit7771 Feb 14 #71
Sorry for Rebl2 Feb 14 #72
I'm so sorry that you lost your dad. Sorry, too, that you weren't able to be there highplainsdem Feb 14 #73
Empathy can be taught. The most important thing I learned from him. marble falls Feb 15 #117
I'm sorry for your loss. live love laugh Feb 14 #74
So sorry for your loss marble KS Toronado Feb 14 #75
My sincere condolences on you loss. CentralMass Feb 14 #77
So sorry for you, marble falls... MiHale Feb 14 #78
So sorry about your ordeal and your loss of such a dear father. Passages Feb 14 #79
I am sorry your Dad passed and that you couldn't be at his funeral, marble falls. Diamond_Dog Feb 14 #80
It's been a different last two weeks. Two weeks ago we had a surgeon claiming a little surgery on a heart valve ... marble falls Feb 15 #107
You did the Right thing. n/t rasputin1952 Feb 15 #120
My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Feb 14 #81
I'm so sorry for your loss. Solly Mack Feb 14 #82
You are blessed by the empathy of the father who loved you and who lived it with loving effort toward children. ancianita Feb 14 #83
I am sorry marble falls. May his journey be a blessed one. OldBaldy1701E Feb 14 #85
A great dad and a step dad to boot. You never EVER heard the word step in house in relation to children ... marble falls Feb 15 #116
My virtual arms are around you UpInArms Feb 14 #86
So Sorry For Your Loss MissouriDem47 Feb 14 #87
Im sorry for your loss slightlv Feb 14 #88
I've driven through El Paso many, many times. It's always been something almost every time ... marble falls Feb 15 #115
So sorry about your dad, pazzyanne Feb 14 #89
Condolences marble falls to you and all the family. c-rational Feb 14 #90
May peace be with you at this difficult time. waterwatcher123 Feb 14 #91
Hugs to you sdfernando Feb 14 #92
We've made a mistake in impugning away people's honest wishes because RW others are shallow and hypocrites ... marble falls Feb 15 #114
What a beautiful memorial of your Dad. JMCKUSICK Feb 14 #93
my heart goes out to you marble falls orleans Feb 14 #94
That's a tough one.... spanone Feb 14 #95
A wonderful tribite to your Dad. Fla Dem Feb 14 #96
Sounds like his legacy continues in you Richluu Feb 14 #97
Deepest sympathies and condolences, Kind Person GeoWilliam750 Feb 14 #98
I am sorry for the loss of your dad. hamsterjill Feb 14 #99
"We as a family are more glad of knowing him than sad he's passed: he'll never be gone." Trueblue Texan Feb 14 #100
I'm very sorry for your loss 🤗 Meowmee Feb 15 #101
Sincere, heartfelt sympathies!! Sparkly Feb 15 #102
I'm so sorry. Sounds like a wonderful man. mountain grammy Feb 15 #103
I am so sorry about your Dad, I've been there, too, way too soon Rhiannon12866 Feb 15 #104
It's been two weeks to contemplate over! ... marble falls Feb 15 #113
I'm so sorry Danmel Feb 15 #105
Oh no I missed this yesterday BumRushDaShow Feb 15 #106
A lot of our lives were about the cars. He chammied his car every Saturday after mowing the yard ... marble falls Feb 15 #111
Very sorry for your loss. Linda ladeewolf Feb 15 #108
The words and sentiment mean a lot. marble falls Feb 15 #110
All of you and your dad were lucky to have one another . . . people Feb 15 #109
Hugs Duncanpup Feb 15 #112
Back atcha! marble falls Feb 18 #132
Condolences to you and your family. pandr32 Feb 15 #118
My sincere condolences to you Quiet Em Feb 16 #123
At home w/ family, quickly and peacefully. What else would one want, if they were passing!! My heart goes SWBTATTReg Feb 17 #126
I'm so sorry for your loss wendyb-NC Feb 17 #127
So sorry for your loss... stillcool Feb 17 #129
Rest in Paradise marble falls dad Niagara Feb 17 #131
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