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Since November 5, I have cut back any or most all interaction with the Trumpers in my life.
Basically the only Trumpers I choose to speak with at all are family members and thats just on a limited need to know basis.
Ive just decided that they are people that dont share my basic values and Im too old and life is too short to waste on people like that.
Now when I meet someone new in a social situation that wants to become part of my social circle, I say this:
Before I waste either your time or mine in possibly starting a friendship, I have one question to ask you, who did you vote for President in 2024?
If they say Trump, then I thank them for their answer and tell them that were just not a good match for friendship because our values are so different.
If they say Harris, then I smile and ask them if I can buy them a coffee.
This is so different for the way I was pre Trump. Before him, I had many Republican friends and acquaintances. But Trump has changed that for me. I just cant deal with them any longer. My social circle is much smaller but so is my stress level.
Anybody else feel this way?