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Avalux

(35,015 posts)
Sun Jan 22, 2012, 11:50 AM Jan 2012

Self-righteousness is UGLY. [View all]

And those showing it today in reaction to Joe Paterno's passing have not stopped to consider how it hurts those of us who are mourning his death today.

Joe Paterno was a man, with faults, and not everything is black and white. He did a lot of wonderful things for his students, the school and the community. He impacted a great number of lives in a very positive way. I'm sorry; a lifetime of that can't be discounted by the Sandusky scandal, and what Joe did or did not do.

For those expressing hatred and disgust over this man's death - judging others without all the facts is foolish; being so cruel at the time of one's death is irreprenhensible.

Within myself this morning, I've got mixed emotions; I sat and cried when I heard the news, so very sad for the loss of someone who positively impacted my life and at the same time, sad and angry it had to end the way it has.

I will always respect what Joe Paterno meant to me, personally. Please respect those of us who feel this way.

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Self-righteousness is UGLY. [View all] Avalux Jan 2012 OP
are you being a bit self righteous judging people that have little sympathy seabeyond Jan 2012 #1
I'd have to agree Whisp Jan 2012 #4
Has there been a trial? Do you know the extend of Paterno's involvement? Avalux Jan 2012 #10
I agree. I don't give a damn about whether people feel sad about this. Post things off roguevalley Jan 2012 #11
Thankyou Vanje Jan 2012 #29
i would think, at the very least seabeyond Jan 2012 #33
I think it's important to recognize that he failed in his duty toward these children and TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #2
actually, he is. He could have ended it. Boys could have been spared. he didn't. roguevalley Jan 2012 #13
Even worse, Paterno knew that what his assistant saw rocktivity Jan 2012 #14
Uh, no, not in my book. Not doing enough to stop a bad deed is not the same TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #18
I don't think you know about guilt by association roguevalley Jan 2012 #24
Had he been charged with a crime? Had he witnessed the rapes firsthand and TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #25
again, teachers, coaches and others have a legal responsibility to ensure that reports like this are roguevalley Jan 2012 #26
We'll just have to hold different opinions. I think he is a very flawed man with a giant moral TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #27
having taught kids who were hurt like this who could have been saved if roguevalley Jan 2012 #34
. rocktivity Jan 2012 #3
yes. thinking of the children, i can look in the mirror. seabeyond Jan 2012 #6
The older I get, the more I feel that 'having all the facts' geckosfeet Jan 2012 #5
We make decisions based on the media's reporting which so often has turned out to be sabrina 1 Jan 2012 #22
Using the term Self Righteousness to trivialize rival opinions is ugly.nt athenasatanjesus Jan 2012 #7
Maybe "sanctimonious" is more exact (nt) Patiod Jan 2012 #19
I feel for the children, the victims, MadHound Jan 2012 #8
I know. It's just a fucking game. Warren DeMontague Jan 2012 #31
I'm afraid you are not going to get what you want. MineralMan Jan 2012 #9
I was thinking how to write what you just wrote...thank you well done. rustydog Jan 2012 #15
Well, that's certainly an ironic post. (nt) Posteritatis Jan 2012 #12
He was the head of a personality cult. I have no sympathy for him. Odin2005 Jan 2012 #16
How did he impact your life? ZombieHorde Jan 2012 #17
Someone on the thread announcing Paterno's death replied "good" Patiod Jan 2012 #20
Yeah... this is a lost cause. cherokeeprogressive Jan 2012 #21
Trash thread is your friend. kiva Jan 2012 #23
After working in a group home with sexually abused children Jennicut Jan 2012 #28
Winning a whole bunch of football games doesn't excuse enabling child abusers. Warren DeMontague Jan 2012 #30
Agree 1000%. I cried too, half for the loss of a great man and half Laura PourMeADrink Jan 2012 #32
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