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Catherina

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35. She warned the babysitter not to turn her back because Adam could get seriously hurt
Tue Dec 18, 2012, 12:24 AM
Dec 2012

She warned the babysitter not to turn her back because Adam could get seriously hurt and and not feel any pain. It's why the school watched him closely when he played baseball with the other kids.

A “longtime” family friend said Lanza had a condition “where he couldn’t feel pain.”

“A few years ago when he was on the baseball team, everyone had to be careful that he didn’t fall because he could get hurt and not feel it,” said the friend.


http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/adam-lanza-20-deeply-disturbed-kid-article-1.1220752



In an interview with the news wire, Richard Novia, the advisor for Newtown High School's technology club said of Lanza's condition: "If that boy would've burned himself, he would not have known it or felt it physically."

http://www.businessinsider.com/why-adam-lanza-could-not-feel-physical-pain-2012-12


I find some of the responses here unbelievable. Plenty of parents tell babysitters not to turn their backs on their kids when they're paid to watch them. You can bet your sweet ass if my 9 year old couldn't feel pain, I'd tell you not to let him out of your sight.

He also had mental issues where any parent would want the baby sitter to be paying attention.

He recalled meeting with school guidance counselors, administrators and with the boy's mother, Nancy Lanza, to understand his problems and find ways to ensure his safety. But there were other crises only a mother could solve.

"He would have an episode, and she'd have to return or come to the high school and deal with it," Novia said, describing how the young man would sometimes withdraw completely "from whatever he was supposed to be doing," whether it was sitting in class or reading a book.

Adam Lanza "could take flight, which I think was the big issue, and it wasn't a rebellious or defiant thing," Novia said. "It was withdrawal."

http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5jqFo4gzH05O-U4ILHjw4rODKwF2A?docId=26dd825803b1440087624a76620f186f


There's no need to exaggerate and try to make him out to have been a monster at 9 years old.

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I agree fully and got my head bitten off because I feel she is also responsible. we can do it Dec 2012 #1
You got your head bitten off for stating what needs to be stated? LeftinOH Dec 2012 #2
I do too. She is even more responsible IMO from what is known so far. we can do it Dec 2012 #5
AMEN! catbyte Dec 2012 #3
That babysitter's probably been having nightmares the past few days. we can do it Dec 2012 #7
I think that's pretty much the advice of any mother to any babysitter of a 9 year old Johonny Dec 2012 #16
I never said that to a babysitter when my child was nine. xmas74 Dec 2012 #23
I was a babysitter starting when I was 12 for several families & never heard that once. catbyte Dec 2012 #27
She warned the babysitter not to turn her back because Adam could get seriously hurt Catherina Dec 2012 #35
We don't have all the details but some facts suggest themselves..... Swede Atlanta Dec 2012 #4
mental health reteachinwi Dec 2012 #19
The one thing she failed to do was to survive. Some survivalist! Speck Tater Dec 2012 #6
GOP, TeaParty, RW media mainstreamed these views so they became much more widely accepted blm Dec 2012 #8
This message was self-deleted by its author Horse with no Name Dec 2012 #32
Those self-fulfilling prophesies bite Tsiyu Dec 2012 #9
She was getting $250K & change a year in alimony WolverineDG Dec 2012 #10
She was getting $250K per year and was afraid of economic collapse??? How frikkin' crazy Nay Dec 2012 #30
Has anyone heard this from anyone other than this one aunt? X_Digger Dec 2012 #11
The single source comments do not agree with other data points ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #20
There's also a lot of thinly veiled racism in the prepper movement Nevernose Dec 2012 #12
I think you've keyed into the basic "mental health" issue.... AntiFascist Dec 2012 #17
I agree - the mother "was" responsible quiche Dec 2012 #13
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I heard some of that as well ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #22
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Actually some of it is understandable and IMO its mostly ignorance, not malice ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #33
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