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hamsterjill

(17,963 posts)
11. In the early 1990's, I went to a gynecologist for birth control.
Mon Jul 21, 2025, 09:25 PM
Jul 2025

I was not on birth control at the time and I had just started a relationship that I felt was headed for intimacy. I remember being asked how long I'd been in the relationship, and it was less than six months. I should not have answered, but I think I did. I was told that I should not consider being intimate before having been in a relationship for at least six months. I remember that it not only infuriated me but made me feel like I was being judged BECAUSE I WAS BEING JUDGED!!!!

Changed doctors immediately, of course. Didn't need that kind of crap. It existed THEN even with the safeguards of equality given by Roe, etc. It is only going to get worse as more and more rights are taken from women and they are judged based on their chastity.

This is why, I believe, that CHOICE and EQUALITY have GOT to be paramount on the Democratic platform.

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zombie puritans. england was smart to kick them out. pansypoo53219 Jul 2025 #1
Republican lawmakers' have hated women a long time. Passages Jul 2025 #2
she dodged a bullet Skittles Jul 2025 #3
GOP hates women and wishes to punish, control, torture and kill them. Irish_Dem Jul 2025 #4
but sexually abuse them first nt et tu Jul 2025 #7
Trump's rapes are not just about sex. It is about violence and humiliation. Irish_Dem Jul 2025 #21
I bet they don't deny unmarried men getting Viagra Bayard Jul 2025 #5
Conservatives never condemn the unwed father BOSSHOG Jul 2025 #8
And they wonder why the birth rates are falling across the nation Arazi Jul 2025 #6
What if she was gay, married and pregnant. rubbersole Jul 2025 #9
Another victory Just Jerome Jul 2025 #10
In the early 1990's, I went to a gynecologist for birth control. hamsterjill Jul 2025 #11
"he's not obligated to listen to his constituents." GiqueCee Jul 2025 #12
This. sheshe2 Jul 2025 #18
Belief in a cruel God makes a cruel man. Thomas Paine Ping Tung Jul 2025 #13
TOO true... GiqueCee Jul 2025 #23
The names of the physician and clinic or hospital Gaugamela Jul 2025 #14
Whoever doxed them could then be held liable Oeditpus Rex Jul 2025 #19
Best she drop the Xian doc pfitz59 Jul 2025 #15
Being in the Bible Belt, you'd think they would multigraincracker Jul 2025 #16
A horrifying percentage of Evangelicals... GiqueCee Jul 2025 #24
According to her Bible, Mary wasn't married Mblaze Jul 2025 #17
More evidence of the throwback mentality B.See Jul 2025 #20
Has this physician provided prenatal medical care to other women? Diamond_Dog Jul 2025 #22
Parts of Tennessee are beautiful. It's a shame that so many ugly people live there Buckeyeblue Jul 2025 #25
I lived in Nashville from 1969-79. MIButterfly Jul 2025 #26
Google review time! viva la Jul 2025 #27
Kick Demovictory9 Jul 2025 #28
TY! sheshe2 Jul 2025 #29
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