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Mossfern

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12. Do you mean the rabbi?
Fri Jul 25, 2025, 08:46 AM
Jul 2025

Maybe I took it the wrong way ,but I find it in the same category as "When did you stop beating your wife?"

I know I'm not communicating this well, but when you're doing the right thing and
someone tells you that they are so thrilled (to tears) that you are doing the right thing, when you were doing the right thing all along, it seems kind of patronizing (maybe I'm using the wrong word) or maybe they believed you weren't doing the right thing and they are so pleased that you finally are.

It was the aspect that someone was moved to tears to learn that you were doing the right thing when you were doing it all along. To me, it insinuates that.

It's complex, and maybe I'm the only one who feels that way.
Actually it was because it was posted as something incredibly wonderful that triggered me.

The rabbi's words and sentiment are not something new to me or any other Jewish person.
It's part of our faith and has always been - therefore the quotes from scripture and Talmud did not seem remarkable to me, or worthy of special praise.

No worries, I'm resigned to people not understanding.

As I said, I'm not angry with any specific person, I'm just disappointed that the message was considered as remarkable.

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Very, very moving BuddhaGirl Jul 2025 #1
Eloquent and needed... hlthe2b Jul 2025 #2
Indeed. Bread and Circuses Jul 2025 #3
This is not unique Mossfern Jul 2025 #4
Blessings upon her! She looks so young... electric_blue68 Jul 2025 #5
I read this on my phone in the doctor's waiting room and started crying vanessa_ca Jul 2025 #6
I stand with you. I, too am moved by this call for service. Bread and Circuses Jul 2025 #7
Are you assuming that the majority of Jewish people are indifferent? Mossfern Jul 2025 #8
I'm not sure H2O Man Jul 2025 #9
It was the quote she used ""Indifference to evil is worse than evil itself ..." Mossfern Jul 2025 #10
What people do H2O Man Jul 2025 #11
Do you mean the rabbi? Mossfern Jul 2025 #12
Okay. H2O Man Jul 2025 #14
It does look interesting and will read their articles Mossfern Jul 2025 #15
Sorry, you did take it the wrong way SocialDemocrat61 Jul 2025 #16
I accused her of nothing Mossfern Jul 2025 #17
Yes you did SocialDemocrat61 Jul 2025 #18
Actually, you did. But I don't care. vanessa_ca Jul 2025 #19
Thanks. But no apology needed. Mossfern did take it wrong vanessa_ca Jul 2025 #21
You're welcome SocialDemocrat61 Jul 2025 #22
I think it could be for multiple reasons EdmondDantes_ Jul 2025 #20
. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #13
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