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Alice B.

(743 posts)
79. I hear you. I know this quite personally because I've used an EBT card -- even an average white lady
Wed Jul 30, 2025, 06:13 PM
Jul 2025

gets stares. I'm just always amazed every time someone posts on Facebook or writes an LTTE with a highly detailed accounting of what another person is buying, while complaining about the misuse of their tax dollars.

True, it can often be hard to miss what people are buying and how they are paying (and cards in my state are, or at least they were, distinctively designed with a particularly obnoxious color combination; someone even wrote a blog post about it once) -- but a lot of times it can also be easy to look elsewhere. Considering lot of card readers have hoods to keep bystanders from being able to see your pin, to my mind, there is (or should be) an unspoken bit of etiquette about making an effort to mind one's own in the checkout line.

Maybe it's just me going out of my way not to watch someone pay, and find other things to look at. But I'd bet that if I started screaming about people's Wells Fargo or Chase cards and 2 liters of Mountain Dew with any degree of specificity, people might be worried I was trying to skim numbers or something.

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They just punish. Food is food pretty much. Most food problems are from over eating, not what your eating Blues Heron Jul 2025 #1
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #2
Did I say it was water? No it's sugar water. Not a problem unless you guzzle a quart at a time. Blues Heron Jul 2025 #5
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So ban all processed food for snap recipients? That's dumb. The restrictions are dumb. Blues Heron Jul 2025 #7
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WIC is too restrictive for most Freddie Jul 2025 #14
WIC is very restrictive... SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #16
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Not sure what your point is SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #69
Their point is pushing the right wing "welfare queen" angle in new clothes (new wording for old trope) Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2025 #73
I'm not pushing right wing anything SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #75
It's not you. I was answering your question you asked of the right wing troll. They got banned for the reason I cited. Bernardo de La Paz Jul 2025 #76
Ah, got it - thank you for the clarification! n/t SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #77
Restrictions punish and people get weird about food "morality" REALLY quickly. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #4
Restrictions on food stamps are pretty much to humiliate people questionseverything Jul 2025 #6
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #12
Of course it's to humiliate food stamp recipients questionseverything Jul 2025 #17
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #18
It's foolish, where does the no sugar stop? questionseverything Jul 2025 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #22
I'm not asking for anyone's sympathy questionseverything Jul 2025 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #30
No we don't, they can pass anything they want on their own questionseverything Jul 2025 #34
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #36
No, repukes start by eliminating soda and end with eliminating the program questionseverything Jul 2025 #38
The "government" isn't paying for it. choie Jul 2025 #90
I disagree Mossfern Jul 2025 #44
So since you are such an expert, I assume your eating habits are "perfect "? questionseverything Jul 2025 #46
Actually .... Mossfern Jul 2025 #54
The problem is balance between what is healthful... haele Jul 2025 #48
Very often people receiving food stamps Mossfern Jul 2025 #57
Poison is not on the list of SNAP-eligible products. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #58
That public assistance doesn't always pay rent and utilities synni Jul 2025 #96
As a matter of fact choie Jul 2025 #91
Punishment berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #9
This! justaprogressive Jul 2025 #15
And also, the homeless. A bag of beans to someone who, by definition, has no kitchen to cook in, is just insulting. CTyankee Jul 2025 #20
Exactly berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #24
I wonder if that's how their mamas raised them -- to inventory a stranger's cart and pay strict attention to how ... Alice B. Jul 2025 #39
In AR all ebt cards look the same berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #41
I hear you. I know this quite personally because I've used an EBT card -- even an average white lady Alice B. Jul 2025 #79
But Twinkies and a Coke Mossfern Jul 2025 #45
"Twinkids and a Coke will harm them." WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #53
People on snap already can't buy candy bars with it standingtall Jul 2025 #59
Yup, I heard it straight from the horse's mouth. GoCubsGo Jul 2025 #23
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #25
I wasn't responding to the OP. GoCubsGo Jul 2025 #26
+1 leftstreet Jul 2025 #35
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Neither help nor punish GreatGazoo Jul 2025 #10
See my post just before yours. CTyankee Jul 2025 #21
I got into an argument with a professor once over this sort of thing. Alice B. Jul 2025 #42
Honestly, I'm torn on this... SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #11
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #13
Most people want to be healthy, so focus on education not restrictions. Blues Heron Jul 2025 #29
I agree but not sure how they could Tree Lady Jul 2025 #52
The only real way to do it... SickOfTheOnePct Jul 2025 #55
One item drives me nuts. Kraft box of Mac n cheese. If cbabe Jul 2025 #27
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #31
If you have a microwave. One innovation is pop top cans so a can opener isn't needed. cbabe Jul 2025 #32
When healthy foods become more price-competitive to the alternatives Torchlight Jul 2025 #33
$25 bottle of olive oil vs $7 bottle of hydrogenated veg oil berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #37
Please don't feel that way, most of us don't agree with that crap questionseverything Jul 2025 #40
Thank you berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #43
No one should ever feel ashamed for doing the best they can. Ever. Torchlight Jul 2025 #51
It's very disappointing to see holier than thou types pushing this shit on a democratic site questionseverything Jul 2025 #64
I'm on SNAP, ask me anything. Luz Jul 2025 #47
you explain it well Skittles Jul 2025 #50
Honestly, I live in a food desert..literally. We Luz Jul 2025 #92
aahhh OK Skittles Jul 2025 #93
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In the 'hood??? berniesandersmittens Jul 2025 #71
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This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #49
FWIW, there's very little difference in the kind of purchases SNAP households make compared to non-SNAP households. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #56
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #60
. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #61
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #63
Besides the obvious objections from industries, one of the reasons the USDA is generally loathe to implement WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #65
Exactly, it would just run up the cost which of course means more people can't get food questionseverything Jul 2025 #67
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go cry about it WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #82
Link? questionseverything Jul 2025 #66
Interesting thread that deserves only one response Smokster Jul 2025 #62
There's something else at play here. surrealAmerican Jul 2025 #74
Post removed Post removed Jul 2025 #81
I've seen one person in my entire life only buy standingtall Jul 2025 #83
This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Jul 2025 #85
Ah, *here's* where the dog is buried. You're mad about the way other people choose to eat. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #88
I detest food snobbery Skittles Jul 2025 #94
. WhiskeyGrinder Jul 2025 #84
Gosh, lots of cart-peerers today Starry Messenger Jul 2025 #86
Gladys Kravitz is alive and well Torchlight Jul 2025 #87
right? Skittles Jul 2025 #95
Damn. The shitty things being said about poor people. Double damn. Solly Mack Jul 2025 #89
I agree, this thread is making huge assumptions Luz Jul 2025 #97
Yep. Paternalistic assumptions. Solly Mack Jul 2025 #98
Maybe have a program where an EBT card Mossfern Jul 2025 #99
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