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WhiskeyGrinder

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31. Hi, you're welcome!
Sat Aug 16, 2025, 10:31 AM
Aug 2025
I'm able to look at the entire situation and the history
I mean, you know as little as the rest of us, and has to be pointed in the direction of more information, so “entire situation and history” is a bit of a stretch. What’s clear is this girl’s has been failed many times, and this is the latest in a long line of those failures.

rather than one word shouted in an effort to snap her back into some semblance of reality.
Screaming and swearing isn’t really a great reality to be in, is it? Impatience and contempt an are terrible ways to deal with someone in a crisis.

Really... community leader?
He’s the fire chief. Firefighters regularly poll as some of the most trusted members of the community, and his title “chief” indicates that he is a leader.

Is this fellow a mental health family crisis counselor?
I’d be surprised if he was.

He can't be everything to everybody for every conceivable circumstance and situation
As a first responder, he does have a responsibility to the community he serves. For me, that includes basic courtesy extended to someone in crisis, and certainly a child.

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Volunteer. not professional Justice Brandeis Aug 2025 #1
I think the fire chief is paid staff. thucythucy Aug 2025 #4
Certainly not professional! COL Mustard Aug 2025 #11
well that's awful. seems like a job for police not a firetruck tho nt msongs Aug 2025 #2
More like a mental health crisis team TommyT139 Aug 2025 #3
Not sure of the circumstances Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #14
When I go to the hospital I_UndergroundPanther Aug 2025 #16
That is totally normal, and this should be the case Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #34
I also got dissocitive identity disorder I_UndergroundPanther Aug 2025 #46
A symptom on many levels TommyT139 Aug 2025 #17
They also do not want to label children too early. Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #33
For sure TommyT139 Aug 2025 #37
Thanks for the insight/perspective BannonsLiver Aug 2025 #44
Given how often cops tend to shoot people in these cases, a screaming firefighter is a improvement. Lancero Aug 2025 #19
No worries nwduke Aug 2025 #5
Were all of those people there responding to... a tantrum? JoseBalow Aug 2025 #6
I wondered that as well. hamsterjill Aug 2025 #7
Are we making excuses for an adult cursing at a child Keepthesoulalive Aug 2025 #9
I said that in my post. hamsterjill Aug 2025 #10
I responded to I understand their frustration Keepthesoulalive Aug 2025 #12
Over a cell phone. BannonsLiver Aug 2025 #41
... littlemissmartypants Aug 2025 #8
Terrible! calimary Aug 2025 #13
Notice the grandmother is unquestionably in the right Oeditpus Rex Aug 2025 #15
That's more understandable to me TommyT139 Aug 2025 #18
Well among other things it would dsc Aug 2025 #20
Completely unacceptable. That creep needs to lose his firefighting position. Paladin Aug 2025 #21
I'm confused. Why called 911 and why? What was the emergency and why was she taken away? Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #22
From another article: WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #24
Ah... thanks for the info. It sounds like she needs help from CPS or another family crisis org. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #25
what the fuck WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #27
Oh, hello! Thank you for sharing your opinion. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #30
Hi, you're welcome! WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #31
Plus, no matter the situation, you just don't say that to a kid. Scrivener7 Aug 2025 #35
This place blows me away sometimes WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #40
In the real world he did his best. This outrage is ridiculous. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #38
. WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #39
I will not fault him. He deserves much more consideration that he's being given. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #43
Typical coward and racist scumbag. RandiFan1290 Aug 2025 #23
Wrong Number OC375 Aug 2025 #26
I agree OC.... democratsruletheday Aug 2025 #29
And yet ... you just don't say that to a kid. Scrivener7 Aug 2025 #36
Wanna bet that Fire Chief considers himself to be a "good Christian". ProudMNDemocrat Aug 2025 #28
No excuse and wrong call SkylineChili Aug 2025 #32
There is a documentary about 911 being called for everything..i think it was focused on urban California Demovictory9 Aug 2025 #45
Should be fired. republianmushroom Aug 2025 #42
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