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WhiskeyGrinder

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Sat Aug 16, 2025, 12:14 PM
Aug 2025
In the real world he did his best.
If that is his best, he shouldn't be in a position where he faces people in crisis.

The crime here
Lol speaking of being overwrought...

is that he's being expected to be everything to everyone at all times in all circumstances.
I, personally, am expecting him to do is job as a first responder. To respond to a crisis and not lose his shit.

I don't blame him for being impatient and angry.
Me neither! It's a stressful job. I AM blaming him for how he expressed it.

She clearly wasn't going to be reasoned with.
Because she is a 10-year-old who was in a crisis.

The great effort being spent on splitting hairs and stretching the definition of the duties and job description of a fire chief are truly remarkable to behold. Rather than supporting, it reveals the weakness of the arguments that he should also be the town's mental health team and crisis intervention and family social worker. Please. 🙄
Oh I hope you don't think I was saying he should *also* be the mental health team and so on. Absolutely not! He's the fire chief, who oversees crews responding to crises. If someone is screaming and crying while their home burns and the chief walks over and screams "get a fucking hold of yourself," I think people would have a problem with that, don't you?

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Volunteer. not professional Justice Brandeis Aug 2025 #1
I think the fire chief is paid staff. thucythucy Aug 2025 #4
Certainly not professional! COL Mustard Aug 2025 #11
well that's awful. seems like a job for police not a firetruck tho nt msongs Aug 2025 #2
More like a mental health crisis team TommyT139 Aug 2025 #3
Not sure of the circumstances Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #14
When I go to the hospital I_UndergroundPanther Aug 2025 #16
That is totally normal, and this should be the case Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #34
I also got dissocitive identity disorder I_UndergroundPanther Aug 2025 #46
A symptom on many levels TommyT139 Aug 2025 #17
They also do not want to label children too early. Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #33
For sure TommyT139 Aug 2025 #37
Thanks for the insight/perspective BannonsLiver Aug 2025 #44
Given how often cops tend to shoot people in these cases, a screaming firefighter is a improvement. Lancero Aug 2025 #19
No worries nwduke Aug 2025 #5
Were all of those people there responding to... a tantrum? JoseBalow Aug 2025 #6
I wondered that as well. hamsterjill Aug 2025 #7
Are we making excuses for an adult cursing at a child Keepthesoulalive Aug 2025 #9
I said that in my post. hamsterjill Aug 2025 #10
I responded to I understand their frustration Keepthesoulalive Aug 2025 #12
Over a cell phone. BannonsLiver Aug 2025 #41
... littlemissmartypants Aug 2025 #8
Terrible! calimary Aug 2025 #13
Notice the grandmother is unquestionably in the right Oeditpus Rex Aug 2025 #15
That's more understandable to me TommyT139 Aug 2025 #18
Well among other things it would dsc Aug 2025 #20
Completely unacceptable. That creep needs to lose his firefighting position. Paladin Aug 2025 #21
I'm confused. Why called 911 and why? What was the emergency and why was she taken away? Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #22
From another article: WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #24
Ah... thanks for the info. It sounds like she needs help from CPS or another family crisis org. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #25
what the fuck WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #27
Oh, hello! Thank you for sharing your opinion. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #30
Hi, you're welcome! WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #31
Plus, no matter the situation, you just don't say that to a kid. Scrivener7 Aug 2025 #35
This place blows me away sometimes WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #40
In the real world he did his best. This outrage is ridiculous. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #38
. WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2025 #39
I will not fault him. He deserves much more consideration that he's being given. Oopsie Daisy Aug 2025 #43
Typical coward and racist scumbag. RandiFan1290 Aug 2025 #23
Wrong Number OC375 Aug 2025 #26
I agree OC.... democratsruletheday Aug 2025 #29
And yet ... you just don't say that to a kid. Scrivener7 Aug 2025 #36
Wanna bet that Fire Chief considers himself to be a "good Christian". ProudMNDemocrat Aug 2025 #28
No excuse and wrong call SkylineChili Aug 2025 #32
There is a documentary about 911 being called for everything..i think it was focused on urban California Demovictory9 Aug 2025 #45
Should be fired. republianmushroom Aug 2025 #42
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