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mnhtnbb

(33,037 posts)
Mon Aug 25, 2025, 05:02 AM Aug 2025

The brain drain hits my family. [View all]

I had dinner last night with my youngest son-- who holds a doctorate--and his partner who is a tenured associate professor at UNC Chapel Hill. My son had been on the phone with one of his cousins recently. The cousin ( who is my nephew and youngest son of my very Republican brother and wife) is a Johns Hopkins PhD, associate professor at a major, well known public University in a Midwestern state. His wife is a Caltech PhD who works in research. My nephew has been recruited to a university in the UK, and his wife already been found a research position with room for her to advance. They have a 3 year old daughter and will be relocated to the UK before the end of the year.
I am so pleased they are getting out.

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Congratulations to them. HeartsCanHope Aug 2025 #1
It's a bit of full circle. mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #5
I'm so glad this opportunity has come up for them. AllyCat Aug 2025 #2
I have spoken to both my sons mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #6
I know it's bittersweet, but I'm glad for your family. ariadne0614 Aug 2025 #3
Yes, I get it. mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #7
I finally understand what my parents' generation endured during WWII. ariadne0614 Aug 2025 #18
Congratulations. I'm hoping when my son finishes his Ph.D he'll get put. NNadir Aug 2025 #4
Good luck to him! mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #8
We've discussed it. He's in a valuable field and understands several languages. NNadir Aug 2025 #10
I have a friend who's been in France mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #11
I worked for a French company for about 8 years. NNadir Aug 2025 #13
He should go for it! mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #16
I was looking at Zillow for Canada last night Johnny2X2X Aug 2025 #9
Make sure to let your brother know it's his own fault he can't see his granddaughter regularly NickB79 Aug 2025 #12
My son reported to me last night mnhtnbb Aug 2025 #17
I'm happy for them, but it's also a loss for the nation. Heidi Aug 2025 #14
Im in a doctoral program right now, Hornedfrog2000 Aug 2025 #15
It's going to be a large club. North Coast Lawyer Aug 2025 #19
Ireland sounds good womanofthehills Aug 2025 #25
All my kids are dual US/EU citizens pfitz59 Aug 2025 #20
If it weren't for Brexit, mwooldri Aug 2025 #23
I took a tour of Cambridge this month stollen Aug 2025 #21
Awesome popsdenver Aug 2025 #22
Good luck to them :) mwooldri Aug 2025 #24
Mixed feelings: While I am glad for your nephew and his wife, I bemoan the fact that we are LoisB Aug 2025 #26
My daughter just left UNC for the UK RedDragon1973 Aug 2025 #27
Good for them. Grumpy Old Guy Aug 2025 #28
Good. H2O Man Aug 2025 #29
I wish I had a way out. Initech Aug 2025 #30
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