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MadameButterfly

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31. It's not just one thing. Losing a parent is big
Tue Sep 2, 2025, 03:14 PM
Sep 2025

but at what age and what kind of support system is there after?
When you live in Camelot (even before RFK ran for president) and Dad is about to become leader of the free world, that's another factor.
RFK Jr. did have some problems before the assassination, we don't really know that nature of them, but he may not have had the skills his other siblings had to rebound.
Being a Kennedy has it's advantages but also a lot of pressure.
Once drugs entered the picture, of course everything gets worse.

We are all responsible for ourselves regardless of the circumstances and I'm not saying he isn't. His response to his situation is tragic and cruel.
But to say we know what it was like for him glosses over a lot we just don't know.

Most people who have taken the path he has taken would not have had the opportunies to act out with impunity, or ever been given the power he now wields. I expect there are lots of people who have crashed and burned, unable to overcome tragedies. We never hear from those people.

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The entire Kennedy family is embarrassed by this idiot LetMyPeopleVote Sep 2025 #1
its ok. they are only embarrassed. not sorry. Tetrachloride Sep 2025 #13
No real action... summer_in_TX Sep 2025 #15
"do or do not-- there is no try" Tetrachloride Sep 2025 #16
what were they supposed to do? travelingthrulife Sep 2025 #21
I don't blame her. Sometimes crappy mothers have great kids. twodogsbarking Sep 2025 #2
And sometimes great mothers have crappy kids. liberalla Sep 2025 #7
I think you have this reversed. AllyCat Sep 2025 #14
Jr is the crappy kid but I don't blame the mother. Nor would I give credit to a crappy mother who had a great child. twodogsbarking Sep 2025 #20
I didn't know that PatSeg Sep 2025 #3
Ethel was left a widow of 11 kids. Feel Good Inc Sep 2025 #6
I can only imagine what it was like for PatSeg Sep 2025 #11
i can't imagine one minute being a shoe-in for president MadameButterfly Sep 2025 #30
You are probably right PatSeg Sep 2025 #32
Though he was not a public person TNNurse Sep 2025 #23
No, actually I don't PatSeg Sep 2025 #26
It's not just one thing. Losing a parent is big MadameButterfly Sep 2025 #31
"" AllaN01Bear Sep 2025 #4
The kid took a wrong turn and developed sicko republicon "values" BoRaGard Sep 2025 #5
I worked a few seasons in Hyannis and got to see that family in action Warpy Sep 2025 #8
Your comments here are interesting and well stated. Thanks. (Old issues of "Prevention" - funny stuff). FadedMullet Sep 2025 #9
"Junior really needs to be impeached for negligence and gross incompetence..." OldBaldy1701E Sep 2025 #22
From Simpsons: Robert F Quimby Jr bmichaelh Sep 2025 #10
I gave RFK Jr the benefit of the doubt because of the murder of his father and how he found out mountain grammy Sep 2025 #12
wow did not know that mikenash54 Sep 2025 #17
there are people who are damaged from the word go NJCher Sep 2025 #18
One more NJCher Sep 2025 #19
Chump's childhood was a mess also FakeNoose Sep 2025 #25
Junior has done more damage than his family has done good RainCaster Sep 2025 #24
He should have been aborted. dalton99a Sep 2025 #27
Let's not bring abortion into this, please. ShazzieB Sep 2025 #28
A Kennedy Republican? czarjak Sep 2025 #29
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