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electric_blue68

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48. You have Alot on your plate! Hopefullly fully kick out the pneumonia ...
Wed Sep 24, 2025, 12:37 AM
Sep 2025

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All the various protesting on all the various issues? Think of it like this:
if you, I and countless thousands, millions at times hadn't done any of it - think of how much further back we'd be currently, and imagine being pushed backwards from a even further back place!
Plus all the women you personally helped. You made a difference in their lives! And that probably had positive ripple effects as well.
I hope that makes sense I could do a type of numbers scale analogy if it doesn't. It's important I want you not to feel all that was futile.

As far as the hearing aid issue - you may call me a "good on line friend" if it helps....
I was born w so-so hearing. I probably should have gotten a hearing aid at least some years ago. I'm now waiting for an appointment to the ENT through my ALP.
So you can say to your husband my good on line friend 😉 who's resisted getting a hearing aid is going to get one.
Hey, it might help. And keeping him more engaged might slow the brain/mind issues.

Is there anyway you could barter with some one in your area to do some cleaning in the house. Maybe a friend at DOD might know someone? Just a thought.
Personally, I think you should get the grandson doing something.But that's mho.

If you can sonehow afford it; play the bigger lottery games once in a while for your PNW dreams; do so! Here's a little story....
I once temped at the HQ of a bank in the '80's. It was when the bIg NYC prize was about 84 million.
Well, one of this bank's branchesI thinknin Queens pooled their money......
.
and they won!!!

That's sort of like someone that you don't know but lives in your big apt complex winning. Close enough *to make it seem possible* ! 👍

I was lucky to be able to see 2 of my dreamed of landscapes in '79, '80 for one kind, and in 2007 for a totally different kind.

So I hope it will happen for you!
Blessed be.

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How is everybody holding up? [View all] mahina Sep 2025 OP
I'd guess I speak for many in saying "not great..." hlthe2b Sep 2025 #1
Ditto, 'not great.' elleng Sep 2025 #19
I'm "embracing the suck". LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #2
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I just want to say thank you to you LuckyCharms JMCKUSICK Sep 2025 #24
As I posted, I post action items and satire. usonian Sep 2025 #31
Love it, mahalo Usonian. May I add to the list mahina Sep 2025 #56
Great. Your reply is so close that I don't have to copy and paste. usonian Sep 2025 #58
Waiting for the idiots to Rapture BeneteauBum Sep 2025 #3
I wish they would rupture away pretty soon now. Magoo48 Sep 2025 #20
Yep BeneteauBum Sep 2025 #27
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Does anyone else feel like this? hamsterjill Sep 2025 #4
Yes Catlady123 Sep 2025 #8
Jill, I'm kind of the opposite... LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #12
Thanks so much, Lucky!!! I will. hamsterjill Sep 2025 #15
I'm not especially religious, but you are blessed. LuckyCharms Sep 2025 #16
Well you should come to SA next time with your wife. hamsterjill Sep 2025 #17
Right there with you ornotna Sep 2025 #37
It's always a stressor, right? hamsterjill Sep 2025 #41
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Everything that's going on right now ornotna Sep 2025 #7
It is very good of you to ask. Scrivener7 Sep 2025 #9
Text banking for Field Team 6 FelineOverlord Sep 2025 #10
you do get your free book a month, don't you? NJCher Sep 2025 #33
Barely hanging in there. Might need to take a financially suicidal early retirement. Coventina Sep 2025 #11
Okay.... RT Atlanta Sep 2025 #13
I am firing the afterburners on Activism and Satire. usonian Sep 2025 #14
I read all your stuff NJCher Sep 2025 #34
Luv Ya! usonian Sep 2025 #36
Nope that's me mahina Sep 2025 #55
Appreciated mr715 Sep 2025 #18
Thanks for caring, mahina. Today? Not well. I persevere in Hope... try to forgive those who know not what they do... ancianita Sep 2025 #21
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Thanks so much for asking, mahina. I don't really know. ... littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #25
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Thank you. ❣️ littlemissmartypants Sep 2025 #49
Oh boy do I get it. mahina Sep 2025 #54
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What a Kind OP... Mahalo for Checking, mahina! Cha Sep 2025 #29
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I refuse to get sad. I get even madder! paleotn Sep 2025 #30
Basically trying to live in the moment Tree Lady Sep 2025 #32
it sounds like NJCher Sep 2025 #35
Happy for the moment ... ananda Sep 2025 #38
Just warming up ..... H2O Man Sep 2025 #44
I am not doing well, nor is anyone else here at Casa Light... slightlv Sep 2025 #47
You have Alot on your plate! Hopefullly fully kick out the pneumonia ... electric_blue68 Sep 2025 #48
Thanks for these thoughts. mahina Sep 2025 #53
YW. Got to support each other as we can. 👍 electric_blue68 Sep 2025 #59
Thank you for asking, mahina 🩵 Recovering and rebuildng 💚 Clouds Passing Sep 2025 #50
As someone else said Bettie Sep 2025 #51
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K&R spanone Sep 2025 #57
Sometimes good, sometimes not so good.... electric_blue68 Sep 2025 #60
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