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CountAllVotes

(22,240 posts)
4. thank you
Thu Sep 25, 2025, 02:51 PM
Sep 2025

I'm not a drain on their system as I cared for my late husband for many years. That would have cost THEM a bundle as he died of dementia and VASCULAR problems.

Dying from vascular disease is not the way to go. Good luck tRUMP as you'll be needing is very soon!

I have been scammed by so many since I became a widow. I just got a small amount out of that two year long lawsuit I was dealing with and had no car at all for a few months; well make it two years when considering the "newer" piece of junk I managed to get rid of (along with the lien on it!).

I'm free and clear and by no means rich but the house has quadrupled in value in the 25 years I've been here.

It makes me sad that none of my neighbors care enough to help me out at all. I was outside the other day wrestling with this overgrown plant and almost fell. Some one driving by saw me and stopped, not a neighbor.

The neighbor next door recently spent of $10K having a cage built around the outside of the house so her dog (when not a doggie day care) can go in the front yard. It is a huge black dog and it frightens me as it could easily jump that grotesque cyclone fence she had put up.

So, everyone around here wants me to leave.

I am Irish myself by ethnicity but purely American on other levels. I am a citizen because I was married to my late husband who was from Galway.

Thanks for your support. It means a lot to me and yes, I am even checking into pet passports so I can bring my cats with me!



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6 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Never think of yourself as being a "drain on the system" Prairie Gates Sep 2025 #1
thank you CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #4
I agree with Praire Grass..you are not a drain on a system that you have paid into all these years Deuxcents Sep 2025 #9
Maybe hire someone to do the hard stuff? I'd say go for it, if you can arrange lodging. 58Sunliner Sep 2025 #2
Best of luck to you! Delphinus Sep 2025 #3
Great fear CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #7
My wife and I visited Ireland last year around this time Klondike Kat Sep 2025 #11
My dear CAV, first of all, I applaud you for your courage in considering niyad Sep 2025 #5
Wow -- I'm envious. Do you have friends or relatives in Donegal? It would help your allegorical oracle Sep 2025 #6
My family is from Donegal CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #8
If you have anyone you trust in a no income tax state IbogaProject Sep 2025 #10
Don't need Medicare CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #18
OK, just do some research IbogaProject Sep 2025 #34
The grass is not always greener on the other side, not even in Ireland. Gimpyknee Sep 2025 #12
I don't get out much CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #19
Re Priest's advice - That was then, this is now. No Vested Interest Sep 2025 #32
My selfish side says, don't go because we don't want to lose StarryNite Sep 2025 #13
If you're a citizen with a passport not sure why you would need an income TxGuitar Sep 2025 #14
Agreed Prairie Gates Sep 2025 #15
exactly CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #23
Something that I personally find helpful anciano Sep 2025 #16
Good luck with the move. Old Crank Sep 2025 #17
Bank of Ireland CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #21
I wish you the best lindalou65 Sep 2025 #20
moving to Ireland pamdb Sep 2025 #22
as I mentioned CountAllVotes Sep 2025 #24
Huh? A minimum 50k Euros PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2025 #25
That would seem reasonable for someone wanting to immigrate... regnaD kciN Sep 2025 #30
Go for it! WhiteTara Sep 2025 #26
In 2019 I spent 3 months alone in Ireland Tree Lady Sep 2025 #27
When you change environment, especially when you change countries, you have the possibility fierywoman Sep 2025 #28
I have a cousin who gained dual citizenship Warpy Sep 2025 #29
I share your dual citizenship with the same countries! debsy Sep 2025 #31
Here's a thought-- Bayard Sep 2025 #33
If I wanted to leave with all my friends and family we'd need an ocean liner. hunter Sep 2025 #35
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