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gulliver

(14,035 posts)
45. Poor HR
Thu Oct 16, 2025, 10:08 AM
Oct 2025

I'll bet if you asked HR people, most of them would rather not do thought policing as part of their job. (And the ones who do want to do it are probably the last ones you want doing it.)

I'll just put in my two cents. The person who reported you should be fired or, at a minimum, have something entered into his or her file. They are either not a good team player or, worse, a race Karen. You don't snitch on somebody as a racist unless you're damned sure you have a case. The person who reported you obviously had no case. They don't belong on a team that needs to work together in peace and professionalism.

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Show HR the online site that no_hypocrisy Oct 2025 #1
Precisely this - it's the name of the museum hatrack Oct 2025 #2
Difficult to tell anymore tcfrogs Oct 2025 #6
Way ahead of you tcfrogs Oct 2025 #3
Print out a hard copy and hand it to them. Hopefully the meeting lasts 2 minutes. TheRickles Oct 2025 #9
No. Print out 3 copies - ms liberty Oct 2025 #13
Exactly.. mountain grammy Oct 2025 #23
Or post it on the company bulletin board, assuming you have one...nt Wounded Bear Oct 2025 #34
The offended person would probably consider that harassment. LisaM Oct 2025 #108
HR can show it to her, that is the point. ms liberty Oct 2025 #109
and at SOME point demand an apology.... democratsruletheday Oct 2025 #14
this!!! Celerity Oct 2025 #35
Use uninformed delicate flower Aviation Pro Oct 2025 #41
When I was in high school, back in the Bronze Age, a very naive and foolishly 'helpful' classmate Attilatheblond Oct 2025 #53
I guarantee that student grew up and voted for Trump three times. yardwork Oct 2025 #58
This was in Orange County, Ca, and her family were rigerous about their 'traditional bible' church attendence Attilatheblond Oct 2025 #63
Your post brought back unpleasant memories of that type of "sweet" girl. yardwork Oct 2025 #64
Would biracials be chocolate marshmellows? flor-de-jasmim Oct 2025 #77
LOL Throw in a couple Hispanics and ya got s'mores! Attilatheblond Oct 2025 #80
i hate these people who go behind my back and whine to someone else and dont apologise to me AllaN01Bear Oct 2025 #65
How would they feel BonnieJW Oct 2025 #72
It is our history Bluetus Oct 2025 #69
I knew someone who got in trouble for saying, "frijoles negros." FSogol Oct 2025 #4
No way John Coktosten Oct 2025 #21
They Voted For Cantaloupe Caligula The Corpulent... GB_RN Oct 2025 #26
Haha John Coktosten Oct 2025 #27
Thanks! GB_RN Oct 2025 #31
Having someone get offended when you say "frijoles negros" is the least of your worries today whopis01 Oct 2025 #29
I went to a dentist years ago who was a MAGA type. He was whining about all the 'illegals' travelingthrulife Oct 2025 #42
Goes to show you stupid people can get advanced degrees. nt Wednesdays Oct 2025 #73
It's a furrin' language. CanonRay Oct 2025 #66
There should be no problem, as long as they pronounce it "NAY-gross" JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2025 #37
OK, here's what I'd do. ananda Oct 2025 #5
It Was The Name Of The League! ProfessorGAC Oct 2025 #7
Even as recently as the early 1970's tcfrogs Oct 2025 #8
This is ForgedCrank Oct 2025 #12
Yes - exactly. And it won't end anytime soon. whopis01 Oct 2025 #33
The color Black in Spanish is Negro (soft e like Negative, not hard e like Knee) ... aggiesal Oct 2025 #46
Exactly, it's pronounced "nehgro" neh as in meh with a slight roll to the gr ms liberty Oct 2025 #87
I'm really sorry this is happening to you. yardwork Oct 2025 #10
I would want HR to formally educate the snitch Tanuki Oct 2025 #68
Any escalation will probably hurt the OP more. yardwork Oct 2025 #81
I met W James Cobbin while doing a job at his museum in Youngstown Orrex Oct 2025 #11
Continue to tell the story as it happened. barbtries Oct 2025 #15
I would tell the that, since this is an issue, all employees need to have a list created. OldBaldy1701E Oct 2025 #16
Or make it fun. Ask them to google "Geddy Lee and baseball" ms liberty Oct 2025 #17
Get the friend you were chatting to to confirm, either to the HR person or in writing, that it was the museum name muriel_volestrangler Oct 2025 #18
Attorney - Get An Attorney Now - You're Being Targeted And Attacked MayReasonRule Oct 2025 #19
Geddy Lee Tadams01KC Oct 2025 #20
How old is the person who complained about this? 3catwoman3 Oct 2025 #38
Wow. I would be giddy about that, particularly now ms liberty Oct 2025 #97
Interesting FHRRK Oct 2025 #22
Just tell them you didn't realize a trip to KC was so controversial. xmas74 Oct 2025 #24
For God's sake, don't tell them what NAACP stands for. nt chowmama Oct 2025 #25
I was just thinking the same thing. So silly Callie1979 Oct 2025 #43
National Association for the Advancement of Colored People ... aggiesal Oct 2025 #57
The implication is that the person who got yorkster Oct 2025 #70
Similar, because referring to a black person as "colored" is generally unacceptable in the same way "negro" is. nt thesquanderer Oct 2025 #71
On top of all that, Black people actually perferred to be called Black. (This is based on the movie Red Tails) ... aggiesal Oct 2025 #92
Depends though Mosby Oct 2025 #96
Give them a link to the Negro Leagues malaise Oct 2025 #28
Have a screen shot of their website with the title and logo of the museum JT45242 Oct 2025 #30
I was reported for using "SNAFU" in an email Ponietz Oct 2025 #32
Situation Normal, all fouled up... Wounded Bear Oct 2025 #36
Wait til they learn "niggardly" kiri Oct 2025 #39
I have stopped using that word because it's too easily misunderstood. yardwork Oct 2025 #47
Years ago I used the word "niggardly" during a meeting to describe a low-ball settlement offer. sop Oct 2025 #105
Ask if you should stop donating ... JustABozoOnThisBus Oct 2025 #40
Ask for a copy of the company policy that forbids the word n/t Shrek Oct 2025 #44
Poor HR gulliver Oct 2025 #45
I agree that the lying snitch is not to be trusted. yardwork Oct 2025 #49
THIS is the kind of nonsense the RW loves to point out. Callie1979 Oct 2025 #48
The RW causes this kind of situation more often than not. yardwork Oct 2025 #51
You might keep your mind open to the possibility.... 70sEraVet Oct 2025 #50
Snitching to HR is never a good faith move. yardwork Oct 2025 #54
I guess I always worked for smaller companies. 70sEraVet Oct 2025 #67
Lie down on the floor, kick your feet, rip your clothes, and cry like a baby. hay rick Oct 2025 #52
Whatever happens, please tell us about the outcome rurallib Oct 2025 #55
My husband and I attended a function several years ago at this museum. mommymarine2003 Oct 2025 #56
Many moons ago, a member of the Nixon Whitehouse 3Hotdogs Oct 2025 #59
it was preferred by my community in my own time bigtree Oct 2025 #60
Ignorance angrychair Oct 2025 #61
Taken out of context "Negro" is colonial stollen Oct 2025 #62
It sounds like you have an overactive co-worker. hamsterjill Oct 2025 #74
Sounds like you have an Ass Kissing Republican coworker. Emile Oct 2025 #75
I would definitely insist on an apology Grim Chieftain Oct 2025 #76
I would just insist that they never get to mention it again. Iggo Oct 2025 #88
Simple - Have the website of the Negro Leagues Baseball Museum cued up on your phone. flashman13 Oct 2025 #78
examples DAML Oct 2025 #79
I remember their commercials from Saturday morning cartoons questionseverything Oct 2025 #106
Sort of on-topic but not really Shrek Oct 2025 #82
That's funny. I was reported here for something kind of like that (but not really.) Iggo Oct 2025 #83
Outrage Factory hard at work at your place of employment. n/t flvegan Oct 2025 #84
Counterclaim that the displayed denial of a named business denotes a racism against blacks. Festivito Oct 2025 #85
Go to the web SocialDemocrat61 Oct 2025 #86
Several years ago when I was still working, I was miffed about something that happened. MIButterfly Oct 2025 #89
The complainant was malicious Bobstandard Oct 2025 #90
There are no facts, only interpretations. Nietzsche Ping Tung Oct 2025 #91
Ask everyone at the meeting if they know what NAACP stands for. johnp3907 Oct 2025 #93
Cool story. Mosby Oct 2025 #94
There seems to be some confusion in this thread. And... LAS14 Oct 2025 #95
Cool story! Mysterian Oct 2025 #98
What a cool story! obamanut2012 Oct 2025 #99
I am so tired of stupid people who can't mind their own d*** business FoxNewsSucks Oct 2025 #100
Get a lawyer, get a lawyer, document everything, get a lawyer, and document everything. unblock Oct 2025 #101
is there an official record of this, er, UTTER NONSENSE Skittles Oct 2025 #102
Show up with an attorney. Just like talking to the cops. Hotler Oct 2025 #103
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. It was called the Negro League and is still called the Negro League. Vinca Oct 2025 #104
People are idiots. I don't miss the days of someone mishearing something that was not said to them. dem4decades Oct 2025 #107
My company's HR, now called "People", is the most overhead-iest of all overhead... Mark.b2 Oct 2025 #110
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