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Warpy

(114,602 posts)
17. I think one of my cousins might have done that before her death last year
Mon Oct 20, 2025, 01:32 PM
Oct 2025

When we were teenagers,m she discovered sex and I discovered drugs and rock & roll. She was forced to marry a the guy who got her pregnant and who was also way too young and became a mother at 15, a grandmother at 32--something I resented a bit since it also aged me. She was a great grandmother in her 50s and died at 78 and I think she might have mentioned it once or twice before cigarettes finally killed her.

We hadn't seen each other since we were about nine but we sporadically kept in touch. She was a good friend when we were kids and a kickass lady when we got older. The world is poorer now that she's left it. She's proof that you don't have to be approaching 100 to see your great great grandchildren. She always kicked herself for being dumb enough to smoke. Otherwise, she might have lived long enough to meet her first great great great grandchild.

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I like her already! Emile Oct 2025 #1
Go, Granny, go! 3catwoman3 Oct 2025 #2
Thanks for the earworm! Would be a hoot if she WERE from Pasadena! niyad Oct 2025 #13
I hope it at least is a good earworm. 3catwoman3 Oct 2025 #22
The legendary "Little Old Lady From Pasadena", which always cracked niyad Oct 2025 #24
I was in high school in the mid- and late 1960s, so remember this song very well. 3catwoman3 Oct 2025 #29
""" AllaN01Bear Oct 2025 #3
Grab him by the Epstein. Files malaise Oct 2025 #4
My drag name would be ReLisa DeFiles. COL Mustard Oct 2025 #14
Bwaaaaah - I love that one malaise Oct 2025 #16
DARN!!!! And we were sooooooo hoping!!!! niyad Oct 2025 #25
Trust me....you don't have enough eye bleach!!! COL Mustard Oct 2025 #27
Thank you for the smile! niyad Oct 2025 #28
Good for her! brer cat Oct 2025 #5
Thank you, brer. 💙 sheshe2 Oct 2025 #7
Bravissima! Champp Oct 2025 #6
Oh bless her heart Grim Chieftain Oct 2025 #8
That is the highest form of ethics, to care about those who will live after oneself. NNadir Oct 2025 #9
Just think about it - this beautiful lady was an eye witness to our last fight against fascism. flashman13 Oct 2025 #10
How can you not love this woman? She has lived through the Great Depression, World War II, generalbetrayus Oct 2025 #11
GRAN-TIFA!!! LOVE IT!!! LOVE HER!!! niyad Oct 2025 #12
Someone at our rally had a t-shirt that just that. sheshe2 Oct 2025 #15
Reminded me of this lady at our local rally KS Toronado Oct 2025 #18
I love 💕 her spirit! sheshe2 Oct 2025 #19
YAYYYYY her!!!! niyad Oct 2025 #26
I think one of my cousins might have done that before her death last year Warpy Oct 2025 #17
I can't imagine what it would be like to be a mother that young. sheshe2 Oct 2025 #20
If she hadn't been forced into a marriage neigher partner was ready for Warpy Oct 2025 #23
She was around while women made the biggest gains in rights Bettie Oct 2025 #21
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