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TommyT139

(2,121 posts)
7. Another option: medical social worker
Sat Nov 29, 2025, 04:11 PM
Nov 29

First off, the office for aging people might have recommendations, so please do call them; in some places, there is an overlap between office for aging and disabilities staff, even if you are on the young side There also might be legal clinics near you, associated with a law school program.

If you have been under treatment for your injury, or if you have a primary care physician, ask if there is a medical social worker on their team. Medical social workers help with all sorts of things beyond what we might think of as medical care: housing issues, food insecurity, paperwork challenges -- they would take a "big picture" view of your trouble, integrating your brain injury into their strategy. The job title varies depending on how a medical organization is set up, so start with calling your primary care physician, or the main doctor's office if you are getting specialized care.

Personally I would hold off on the alert-the-press approach. As part of that, you would likely draw more attention (from random people) than support, which could add stress to the whole situation. Save that as a last resort if needed.

Good luck!

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2 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Go to your local center for aging and ask for free legal advice. yardwork Nov 29 #1
How old do I have to be? usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #4
I don't know, and it might vary by agency. yardwork Nov 30 #21
Wow, here are some ideas. bucolic_frolic Nov 29 #2
I am not over 60. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #3
I think they would talk to you bucolic_frolic Nov 29 #5
Thank you so much. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #6
Another option: medical social worker TommyT139 Nov 29 #7
I am so afraid of getting social workers involved. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #16
I'm not sure TommyT139 Nov 29 #20
Also report the busines(es) to the Better Business Bureau in your state. Usually states have fraud divisions that are in2herbs Nov 29 #8
The jetted tub was too big. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #12
I'm very sorry for your loss. yardwork Nov 30 #22
Thank you. usedtobedemgurl Nov 30 #23
I am so, so sorry. EuterpeThelo Nov 30 #26
If contractors in your state have to be licensed, file a complaint. It sure sounds like a con. Maybe you have a Vinca Nov 29 #9
Can I sue the contractor if I was conned by usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #13
What would I say in the complaint? usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #17
I'm not a lawyer, so I don't know how something like that would be worded. Maybe if you made a fraud complaint Vinca Nov 29 #19
We have a neighbor who had issues similar to you LNM Nov 29 #10
You folks are the smartest folks I know.... usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #14
I hope that works for you. Nt LNM Nov 29 #18
Damn it......I feel so sorry for you, and I know that doesn't help......just know you'll get some great suggestions a kennedy Nov 29 #11
Thank you. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #15
That sucks jfz9580m Nov 30 #24
Thank you so much for your kind words. usedtobedemgurl Dec 1 #28
Many, if not not most, states have an Office of Consumer Affairs or Consumer allegorical oracle Nov 30 #25
Talk to your bank where your husband's credit card was used for this purchase. Bread and Circuses Nov 30 #27
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