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TommyT139

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20. I'm not sure

Reply to usedtobedemgurl (Reply #16)

Sat Nov 29, 2025, 09:48 PM

Nov 29

...but you can ask what their boundaries are -- essentially whose "side" they're on. Them being part of your medical team should mean that they cannot share info about your condition without your permission (HIPAA), except in certain situations which they are bound to explain in advance. I believe those are limited to things like whether you are abusing children, elders. But you can ask.

Do you have any family members or trusted friends who are aware of what's going on? Or a therapist of some sort? Having folks on your side can reassure people working on your case that you've got social supports in place.

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Trying to figure out legal and political remedies to a personal problem. [View all] usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 OP

Go to your local center for aging and ask for free legal advice. yardwork Nov 29 #1

How old do I have to be? usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #4

I don't know, and it might vary by agency. yardwork Nov 30 #21

Wow, here are some ideas. bucolic_frolic Nov 29 #2

I am not over 60. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #3

I think they would talk to you bucolic_frolic Nov 29 #5

Thank you so much. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #6

Another option: medical social worker TommyT139 Nov 29 #7

I am so afraid of getting social workers involved. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #16

I'm not sure TommyT139 Nov 29 #20

Also report the busines(es) to the Better Business Bureau in your state. Usually states have fraud divisions that are in2herbs Nov 29 #8

The jetted tub was too big. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #12

I'm very sorry for your loss. yardwork Nov 30 #22

Thank you. usedtobedemgurl Nov 30 #23

I am so, so sorry. EuterpeThelo Nov 30 #26

If contractors in your state have to be licensed, file a complaint. It sure sounds like a con. Maybe you have a Vinca Nov 29 #9

Can I sue the contractor if I was conned by usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #13

What would I say in the complaint? usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #17

I'm not a lawyer, so I don't know how something like that would be worded. Maybe if you made a fraud complaint Vinca Nov 29 #19

We have a neighbor who had issues similar to you LNM Nov 29 #10

You folks are the smartest folks I know.... usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #14

I hope that works for you. Nt LNM Nov 29 #18

Damn it......I feel so sorry for you, and I know that doesn't help......just know you'll get some great suggestions a kennedy Nov 29 #11

Thank you. usedtobedemgurl Nov 29 #15

That sucks jfz9580m Nov 30 #24

Thank you so much for your kind words. usedtobedemgurl Dec 1 #28

Many, if not not most, states have an Office of Consumer Affairs or Consumer allegorical oracle Nov 30 #25

Talk to your bank where your husband's credit card was used for this purchase. Bread and Circuses Nov 30 #27